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Do any girls like shy guys? watch

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    Anyone?
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    i dont mind them, i seem to be able to ease them out of their shell. Though i am a bit shy myself, but im no where near as bad i used to.
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    I prefer shy guys. Why? What happened for you to use that sad face?
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    I've always had difficulty when talking to girls. I've never had a girlfriend or even had a close friend who was female.
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    I like guys who are shy as long as they come out of their shell a bit once u get to know them! I used to be vshy but I'm not so bad now!
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    I hope girls do. I am really shy when it comes to getting to know people, but once I get to know them I am very easy going.
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    haha your faceparty pics dont make you look shy :p: @hazzawazza btw!
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    (Original post by mrt84)
    I've always had difficulty when talking to girls. I've never had a girlfriend or even had a close friend who was female.
    I used to quite shy once but now most of my best friends are guys. As for shy guys, I can kind of relate to what their difficulty might be.. which is how I manage to bring them out of their shell.
    If you are really concerned about this, why don't you sign up for some group activities or society events- some hiking club, or dancing classes. I first got over my shyness when I temped as a receptionist which meant that I couldn't afford to be shy! Maybe you can do something similar?
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    I get on better with shy guys than louder guys. I'm shy myself but around other shy people I'm less shy, as they tend to accept me more as who I am rather than trying to get me to talk loads. x
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    yeah, i like shy guys too, ..... they are nice and shy.
    louder guys make girls nervous.
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    (Original post by awkward_eagle)
    I get on better with shy guys than louder guys. I'm shy myself but around other shy people I'm less shy, as they tend to accept me more as who I am rather than trying to get me to talk loads. x
    Same as me (but opposite way round!)

    I can sit down with anyone and start chatting away, unless they are cute, then i'm just hopeless
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    I think its better to be shy than arrogant like a lot of blokes I know.
    It can only be a hindrance several months into a relationship (if it progresses that far) and he still cant feel confident around me.
    Im pretty sure all shy guys once they become close to a girl are fine!!
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    I'm indifferent to shy people. It just means you'd have to get to know them better. There's a funny stereotype associated with shy guys - that they are more genuine, nicer, more sensitive. I'm not sure how true this is but if that is the case then yes I prefer shy guys. I doubt it is though. Maybe "shy guys" don't really have the opportunity to be anything but nice.
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    (Original post by Adhsur)
    I'm indifferent to shy people. It just means you'd have to get to know them better. There's a funny stereotype associated with shy guys - that they are more genuine, nicer, more sensitive. I'm not sure how true this is but if that is the case then yes I prefer shy guys. I doubt it is though. Maybe "shy guys" don't really have the opportunity to be anything but nice.
    Oh yup, I met some really nice shy guys at the other place & I really wondered how come they exist- in the sense that they were so sensitive, sweet, caring... straight out of some romance novel (not the knight in shining armour type though!).
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    well yeah i'm not good around people i don't know well, but just like people to be friendly really, don't mind if they're shy, prefer not over the top loud people
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    (Original post by mrt84)
    Anyone?
    Yeah I do. So much more...lovable!
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    Well as long as they are not overly shy (as in, they can't even form a complete sentence in front of you).
    Shy, confident but with a touch of humility is good
    I don't like guys that are too full of themselves, and think that they are the centre of the universe.
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    Not really, it's a bit of a turn off having to drag a conversation out of someone. Charisma - good, cockiness - not so good!
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    Well I like boys to talk to me, be upfront, act confident etc, so not really... having said that, loud guys? No thanks.
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    Im shy when it comes to talking to girls but there is one girl at work who i seem to get along with very well. I cant tell if she likes me but we seem to get on. Not sure how i can let her know how i feel.
 
 
 
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