Whats wrong with me? [guy crying in front of girl]

I fancy this girl and I always get a bit erm of a good feeling but not in a sexual way (equally good though) at the thought of her seeing me cry Ive never cryed in front of her I never do in front of anyone but its the thought of her reacting and knowing I cry lol. I don't know a guy shouldnt be thinking stuff like this lol but I dont know if its normal since I dont know if others think like this

The girl will not be impressed by you crying. I've been there.

To me, it seems like girls manage better with guys that are less sentimental. The girl might find it sweet but not attractive. We'll see what the girls have to say...

I fancy this girl and I always get a bit erm of a good feeling but not in a sexual way (equally good though) at the thought of her seeing me cry Ive never cryed in front of her I never do in front of anyone but its the thought of her reacting and knowing I cry lol. I don't know a guy shouldnt be thinking stuff like this lol but I dont know if its normal since I dont know if others think like this

I don't think a girl would be put off by a one-off cry, but if you're crying all the time then I can see where problems might crop up, but that would be the same if the girl was constantly breaking into tears .

well he's talking about a girl he fancies, not a girl he's going out with: you have to admit that you wouldn't find it attractive if a guy just cried in front of you for something. At best, you would find it sweet and endearing but not attractive. Although I guess there's a lot of different preferences out there...

Sorry, I thought he was talking about his girlfriend. It might be awkward if you do cry in front of someone you're not close with and I can see where you're coming from now .

Its not really the crying, just the thought of her knowing that i have feelings (crying would be the best way) Its only a thought though if I litrally did it it would just be embarrasing!
Im still confused lol, never will understand myself!

Then I can't honestly see anything wrong , guys can have feelings too.

sure we have feelings but we arn't allowed to show them, its the law.

sounds like some kind of sick fetish to me.

very odd.

to try to get a girl to fancy you, you want to cry in front of them???

thats just odd mate, you should try it the old fashoined way, by talking to them

riddy, whats the deal with you having a non-sexual fetish for crying in front of girls, its not fun...?

I fancy this girl and I always get a bit erm of a good feeling but not in a sexual way (equally good though) at the thought of her seeing me cry Ive never cryed in front of her I never do in front of anyone but its the thought of her reacting and knowing I cry lol. I don't know a guy shouldnt be thinking stuff like this lol but I dont know if its normal since I dont know if others think like this