Feel bad for this.

Reply 1

Don't tell your boyfriend, it'll lead to unnecessary trouble.

Just don't do it again. It happened, you now know you feel guilty, so it won't happen again.

Right??

Reply 2

Roxannabelle

It was a bit uncalled for with the bum-rubbing.
If you think your boyfriend would understand it was just a friendly bum-rubbing hug, then sure, tell him and get it off your chest.
If you don't think he'd take it well, don't tell him. What he doesnt know can't hurt him.

Also, don't do it again?

Reply 3

Aack

Let your boyfriend spank you because you're a dirty bitch and you deserve it.

Reply 4

Goldenfox

fran1891

You did nothing. But don't tell your boyfriend about this nothing.

Reply 5

fran1891

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Reply 6

fran1891

Reply 7

Roxannabelle

I wouldnt say you've cheated. Deffinately not.
And if you get an overreaction, maybe he's a little insecure about his trust for you.

Reply 8

TheLouisVuittonDon

You should let your boyfriend have sex with a woman of his choice now, it's only right.

Reply 9

GingerGoat

Awww come on :smile:

well you refused to kiss him! So you've been loyal to him, it was just you being a bit tipsy friendly.
Don't worry about it :smile:

Reply 10

lilchatterbox2010

dont beat yourself up over it...it was only a hug after all! you didn't cheat ...you didn't kiss him so i don't think you were unfaithful in anyway. It isn't your fault if someone came onto you, the important thing is that you resisted xxxxx

Reply 11

username104603

Just man up and keep it to yourself.

Reply 12

Sommerfugl

you werent cheating, but hugging other guys you just met and that likes you, is not acceptable in my eyes :/

Reply 13

banter

he would be pissed if the lad groped your ass. but you did it to him... thats bloody worng.

just tell him. its kind of cheating but it aint as bad as kissing.

i dont think you two would split over it, but he has the right too know that youve been eyeing up and groping this bloke...your not a good girlfriend. and you want to hide this from him? that makes you even worse...

Reply 14

Lust of a Gardener

Are you pregnant now?

Reply 15

GdotL

Lol don't tell him - it's too minor! Bet he'd start something over it though so just keep quiet :wink:

Reply 16

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Goldenfox

You did nothing. But don't tell your boyfriend about this nothing.

lol don't try and absolve blame. if its nothing then she should be able to tell her boyfriend about it surely. i'm quite sure you wouldn't see it as nothing if your boyfriend did it to you.
But look, no point feelin all bad and guilty etc. what you did was wrong but you did show restraint and you didnt cheat bad on him (and yes its still cheating even if you didn't kiss. its not the act that determines the cheating but the motive and ur motive was flirty not jokey so technically its cheating but in a very very mild form) so draw a line under it. say to yourself that it won't happen again and don't give in to advances like that and if you don't feel as tho u have the restraint for future then dont put urself in that position. just accept it as a mistake and move on. but don't tell ur boyfriend bcos it will just cause unnecessary hurt