Phone sex with another guy...is it cheating?

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Hii all,

I know I'm going to get slated for even thinking about another guy but I would really like some opinions.

Basically I have a boyfriend of two years, but have got really really close to a guy at uni. This guy just asked me for phone sex and I said ring me in haf an hour when everyone is out and I will. He also has a topless pic of me on his phone that I sent I regret sending the pic I know I'm a horrible person. But I would just like to know, do you guys consider phne sex with someone other than your partner cheating?
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Is it "cheating"? I don't know, but I would dump you anyway. :rolleyes:
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Yes. I'd dump my boyfriend straight away, for either the photo or the phone sex.

How would you feel if your boyfriend did that, or if you found a topless photo of another girl on his phone?
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I think if you have phone sex you're laughable, thats what I think. If you're going to cheat at least do it properly , not only are you being deceitful to your bf but you sound really lame.
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I'd say maybe it'a a little bit cheating, but a lot more forgivable than actually getting with him
Depends how forgiving your bf is tbhs
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Yea its cheating.
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It is a grey area as far as cheating is concerned, as nothing physical is happening, still I'd be gutted if I found out that had happened.
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your relationship is ******
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Of course it is! You don't need to do something physically to class it as "cheating"
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I guess? You obviously don't think it's right otherwise you wouldn't be posting this in the first place. If I was him and I found out I would dump you. Unless you have a very open relationship. Which you don't, obviously.
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Either cheat properly or not at all. Jeez.
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Of course its cheating you fool
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Yes. Also phone sex is lame.

Wtf. You stick the phone up there or something?

If you're gonna cheat, at least do a good job. Bang him.
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Of course it's cheating!
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Dunno loads of married guys call sex hotlines and it's not really classed as cheating. Sending nude pics though, I would be more worried about that x
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Were I your boy-friend I would be rid of you for it.
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(Original post by shinygirl)
Dunno loads of married guys call sex hotlines and it's not really classed as cheating. Sending nude pics though, I would be more worried about that x
Lots of married guys do it so it's not cheating?!

Course it's cheating! If you wanna have phonesex, why not have it with the person YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH!

Any type of intimacy is cheating, if you're in a relationship - Be it sexual, or emotional. Still infidelity.
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Who **** has phone sex? I'd rather watch some porn, otherwise i'd be laughing down the phone, not getting off.
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Yes of course it's still cheating, the thoughts still there, just because you haven't done anything physical doesn't make it okay!
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I did this a while ago and for some deluded reason I thought I wasn't cheating. I felt a little guilty but didn't stop. Then he found out and I felt so awful. I can see now that it was a really horrible thing to do and I regret it so badly. It is cheating, think how you would feel if you found out he was doing it.
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