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As a muslim is there any point of me havin girlfriends?

keep anon please

I've got a non muslim girlfriend and I know ill never marry her. So is it fair that I'm with her? I really like her but it's not fair on her if I already know that there is no way that I'm going to have children with her and marry her...

And please i didnt come here to be lectured etc I know what im doing is wrong and hopefully ill stop. So no debates please

Reply 1

Magic Dust

I am guessing your young so no it's not wrong imo. But what if you fall in love with her and want to marry her? What will you do then...?

Reply 2

moneyballs2

14

Well you don't want to be lectured, and you know it's wrong, so what are you asking?

Reply 3

Watch Out For Sharks

8

Life isnt all about getting married and having kids.
Its called "fun."

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

Don't take her for a fool.

My ex boyfriend was also a Muslim and he would tell me for over 2 years all this ******* he would marry me and do this and do that and rubbish.

His dad found out. He dumped me the next day and never looked back.

I hate him. Unless thats what you want, I suggest you tell her how it is now.

Ps. Clearly Im non muslim.

Reply 5

Adonis

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moneyballs2

Well you don't want to be lectured, and you know it's wrong, so what are you asking?

this

Reply 6

helpmee1234567890

2

well how do u no u cant marry her muslim men are allowed to marry muslim women u never no u love her so much y not marry her :smile:

Reply 7

TheArabian

8

Anonymous

keep anon please

I've got a non muslim girlfriend and I know ill never marry her. So is it fair that I'm with her? I really like her but it's not fair on her if I already know that there is no way that I'm going to have children with her and marry her...

And please i didnt come here to be lectured etc I know what im doing is wrong and hopefully ill stop. So no debates please

It is wrong to have such a relationship, any solution?

Marry her and say: God knows what happens in the future and hopefully you stay together for ever? if after some time you want to divorce, then do it and give her her rights,. That's the best I can think of

Of course it is a sin to marry with the INTENTION to divorce!!
Any other suggestions?

Reply 8

didgeridoo12uk

16

why would you not marry her?

and as long as she knows the situation, theres nothing wrong with it

Reply 9

That Was So Funny!

2

OP it will just cause more pain for both of you. But more her than you as you will end up using her as a tool

I'd advise against it

Reply 10

joey11223

20

will she not convert? If she's Christian or Jew I believe it is acceptable for a Muslim man to marry a woman of said faiths, though it is hoped she will convert to Islam at some point afterwards.

Reply 11

nase14_aldayz

13

If it gets serious just see if she would convert. For now just relax, and take it for what it is.

Reply 12

Diaz89

3

It won't last to that stage anyway, so best advice is to correct your way and follow your deen.

Reply 13

Adonis

3

joey11223

will she not convert? If she's Christian or Jew I believe it is acceptable for a Muslim man to marry a woman of said faiths, though it is hoped she will convert to Islam at some point afterwards.

it is

but families don't always follow strict islamic code.

Reply 14

ak56

13

If OP was Christian, everyone would be like "GOD DUNT EXIST RETARD".

Reply 15

joey11223

20

Adonis

it is

but families don't always follow strict islamic code.

I would have thought a liberal Muslim family wouldn't mind who he married, and a conservative one would follow the Islamic code that I described?

Reply 16

StarShine*

2

Anonymous

keep anon please

I've got a non muslim girlfriend and I know ill never marry her. So is it fair that I'm with her? I really like her but it's not fair on her if I already know that there is no way that I'm going to have children with her and marry her...

And please i didnt come here to be lectured etc I know what im doing is wrong and hopefully ill stop. So no debates please

Sorry to burst your bubble, but I think you have to forget her, because quite frankly you are wasting your time :frown:

no?

BTW:

Why won't you marry her?

Reply 17

joey11223

20

ak56

If OP was Christian, everyone would be like "GOD DUNT EXIST RETARD".

you'll get some soon I'm sure.

It's pretty sad when you let a faith, Islam in this case, override your own happiness and destroy relationships and families. It is fascinating yet depressing that religion seems to override basic human morality and decency.

there is your mature response, but the morning is young, and the trolls shall come...(kinda rhymed actually...haha)

Reply 18

Adonis

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joey11223

I would have thought a liberal Muslim family wouldn't mind who he married, and a conservative one would follow the Islamic code that I described?

it's not as clear cut.

from my experience/observations it's a very individual thing

and they may not accept her even if she is Christian and even though it's technically fine they don't care

muslim families are VERY hard to change minds if they are more orthodox which OP hints at

Reply 19

Adonis

3

joey11223

you'll get some soon I'm sure.

It's pretty sad when you let a faith, Islam in this case, override your own happiness and destroy relationships and families. It is fascinating yet depressing that religion seems to override basic human morality and decency.

there is your mature response, but the morning is young, and the trolls shall come...(kinda rhymed actually...haha)

social pressures

often families think about what others will think

which is dumb but happens

As a muslim is there any point of me havin girlfriends?

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