Dancing [love it or hate it?]

Alright people,

Dancing. You either love it or you hate it right? I hate it. When I go clubbin or whatever and dance I get really embarrassed! Since my girlfriend, who so kindly dumped me for my best mate, broke up with me I have gone out loads more and I've found that dancing seems to be a big appeal to women. I was talking to this women and she was trying to get me to dance and when I declined she did the whole - 'dancing shows that your good in bed thing'. So what do you women think? and what about you guys, anyone feel the same as me?

Cheers in advance, Ad :p:

Reply 1

r_raghav11

1

tbh....initially i'm reluctant to dance. coz i dont think i'm a great dancer as such. but a couple of swigs and i'll be hittin the floor. dont be conscious abt it...just have a blast! you'll do just fine...prob u might get it all wrong the first time...but so do we all! u'll learn! :biggrin:

cheers!

Reply 2

finnstar

13

ditto raghav
just have a blast

Reply 3

adamu

OP

Ive already done it, loads and done it wrong believe me! I just feel like a bit of a pillock! :frown:

Reply 4

Peach

9

The whole 'dancing shows you're good in bed' thing is rubbish IMO. Possibly that woman just really fancied you, and wanted to get you on the dancefloor so she could kiss you! :biggrin:

I love dancing when I go out, but then again I have no shame! You shouldn't worry if you don't think you're the world's greatest dancer, just give it a go if you feel like it :smile:

Reply 5

r_raghav11

1

oh yeah!!! just dance....dont bother abt anyone! its all abt having fun! if ur gonna be conscious...u'll always have that fear! just let go...! :biggrin:

Reply 6

black_mamba

14

I don't dance. I either shuffle or jump up and down on the spot. :smile:

Reply 7

r_raghav11

1

as long as u hit the floor!! and have fun! i mean no one's gonna bother how ur dancin...as long as ur just doin sumthin out there! :wink:

Reply 8

RetiredAccount89

18

It doesn't matter if you really dance or not. Get on teh dance floor, put a big grin on your face and go nuts.
put a weird look on your face as though you are taking the piss whilst doing barmy dance moves (i personally like the 'lawnmower', the 'dual pistols' the 'body press' and the 'gym routine').

if that failes just move in the slightest amount all of 40 cm away from a girls face whilst looking her directly in the eye. They love that one... :smile:

Reply 9

r_raghav11

1

well...thats exactly wat i'm saying! no one will bother! :toofunny:

Reply 10

Sami C

1

Ah dancing, the secret really is to let go. You'll be surprised with the kind of stuff you come out with. As long as you don't claim you are the best dancer in the world you'll be fine. Oh, my strategy was to learn the moonwalk and just show it off at the wrong times...yes, I know, I rock...

Reply 11

Death

I've only danced twice in my entire life and I really enjoyed it BUT I can't help but laugh the following morning at myself. I just punish myself by imagining how weird I must have looked. But tbh, while I'm doing it I really couldn't care less what others think. I had always refused to dance and I have quite frequently remained motionless on the dance floor while others around me went crazy lol. But I decided to do it when this girl literally dragged me onto the dance floor. But clearly, girls prefer guys who dance, and who dance quite well. I admit it I suck, but I haven't given up on it yet. I would suggest just look at how others around you dance. If there is somebody who really catches your attention and you say to yourself, like I often do "I really wish I could dance like that" don't copy them exactly but try and get the same kind style. Then switch again to something else as probably variety would get the girls more interested in you. Just a hunch.

Reply 12

Adarah

16

I only dance after a few drinks, because I'm not that good, but if I'm drunk I'll dance anyway and have fun and i can always say I'm a better dancer when I'm not drunk, eventhough I'm not :wink:

really, just go and dance, have fun! stop trying to think that everyone else can dance, if you look closely, you'll see that most people can't actually dance!

Reply 13

Blanco Ballo

1

Yeah I love it. Its even better when your mates can't; it makes the girls think I'm unique :biggrin:

Reply 14

kitsune

12

I LOVE DANCING!!! If it wasnt for me all the people I go out with would just sit down drinking!!! They are so boring!! I love dancing!!! I never stop since i get into the disco until I'm told to leave! :p:

(and I've never bought a drink in a disco IN MY LIFE!!! they are very expensive!!!)

Reply 15

rachplatt

2

I enjoy dancing but I haven't really got the confidence to look good doing it. I'll happily dance ironically, doing cheesy OTT stuff on purpose, or just slow dance, but I'm rubbish at normal dancing. I hate being in clubs and stuff when it is required.