Opinion please [women ARE from venus...]

someone said...men are frm mars and women are frm venus. Mars is def closer to earth!!! well...she likes u...but in a sense that u like her?? i dont think so.

Reply 2

i see the change in the title of the thread after my prev post !!! :biggrin:

Reply 3

Kura1984

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Hmmm, when I was free and single I'll admit that just getting the appropriate attention spurred on flirtatious antics on my behalf. Flirting shouldn't be taken so literally, especially with such young women. What she is saying is that the possibility is there, but she isn't offering until SHE feels like it! Sorry!

Reply 4

OP

so shes not interested then? well im just gonna ask her - i hate beating around the bush!

Reply 5

give it some time and see where it lead to! then we'll decide!

Reply 6

Kura1984

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so shes not interested then? well im just gonna ask her

You should definately ask, otherwise this little mind game could go on for ages!

Reply 7

OP

urrrg hate mind games! Ok ill let you know what she says.

Reply 8

only if you turn the knob will the door open! :rolleyes:

Reply 9

tcelina

If you ask her you could ruin the fun flirty friendship you have now. It will put her in the position to worry about how she acts around you in case she gives you the wrong impression. From your description of the evening, she is not romantically attracted to you and is just using you as a friend to take care of her when she is out drinking. If you don't think thats good enough and don't care if she remains your friend then you ahead and confront her, it will probably knock some much needed sense into her. But be prepared that things will not be likely to return to "normal" in the near future, and maybe her friendship means more to you than needlessly making her self-conscious around you.

Just because she likes you as a friend and you want more doesn't make it "mind games"...

edit: oh, just read your post again and realized she isn't a friend at all but just some random girl at a club you've met twice. Forget all my advice, just tell her how you feel, at least you'll know for sure, and anyway, who cares if she rejects you when you hardly know her anyway? Good luck!!

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OP

tcelina

If you ask her you could ruin the fun flirty friendship you have now. It will put her in the position to worry about how she acts around you in case she gives you the wrong impression. From your description of the evening, she is not romantically attracted to you and is just using you as a friend to take care of her when she is out drinking. If you don't think thats good enough and don't care if she remains your friend then you ahead and confront her, it will probably knock some much needed sense into her. But be prepared that things will not be likely to return to "normal" in the near future, and maybe her friendship means more to you than needlessly making her self-conscious around you.

Just because she likes you as a friend and you want more doesn't make it "mind games"...

edit: oh, just read your post again and realized she isn't a friend at all but just some random girl at a club you've met twice. Forget all my advice, just tell her how you feel, at least you'll know for sure, and anyway, who cares if she rejects you when you hardly know her anyway? Good luck!!

lol - cheers hunny :biggrin:

Reply 11

MagicNMedicine

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did she tell you her name?

because if she didn't, she was probably a girl from Mars

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