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Reply 1
lube?
Reply 2
Anonymous
please do not de anon just delete if not

this is serious ...basically im a virgin and im nearly 22 and havent found the right person yet. so ive invested in a dildo... thing is .... i cant get it in...
say when the time comes will it be more easier to put a penis in than a dildo. im just worried it wont go in now. :s-smilie:


What is the length and width of said dildo? :eyeball:
You can't get it in as in...it hurts?

Anyway, you should try using your own fingers first. From nothing to dildo it is going to be difficult.
Reply 4
yes i cant get it in as it kinda hurts .......... i'll let you know the size but its one of those standard rampant rabbit ones :s-smilie:
Reply 5
this is the size

Length 7.5” (19cm), girth 5" (13cm)
Reply 6
lube and relax
Rampant Rabbits are way too big if you're a virgin. I would invest in something a bit smaller to start off with, and use lube and lots of it.
Or like I said before, use your own fingers.
Mr. Orange
Ah you see now there's your problem, those stats are too big. I suggest sleeping with a few Chinese boys :yes: Might be a bit easier.... :yep:


Hehe :rofl: Good advice.

Invest in something smaller :yep:
I think they should make vibrators for virgins. I mean, I have little interest in sex, but in masturbation, hell yes.

And vibrators are always giant bright and terrifying :L
Reply 10
You need to relax and be turned on as you would normally; being nervous can make penetration difficult and take it slowly; maybe rubbing it on the outside stimulating your clitoris. You could invest in a mini rabbit which are around 5.5 inches; those stats are very large!
wtfCharlie
I think they should make vibrators for virgins. I mean, I have little interest in sex, but in masturbation, hell yes.

And vibrators are always giant bright and terrifying :L

Yo but you are 15 :nothing:
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Yo but you are 15 :nothing:


Believe me, most of the 15yearolds I know - have a BIG interest in sex :rolleyes:

And plent of them are shagging around . . . great for young peeps reputation :L
Use a lubricant? If you 'dildo' yourself regularly, you'll get used to it .. don't worry. Besides when you do foreplay with your future partner, your body will produce natural lube to loosen your vagina, so it will fit.
Anonymous
please do not de anon just delete if not

this is serious ...basically im a virgin and im nearly 22 and havent found the right person yet. so ive invested in a dildo... thing is .... i cant get it in...
say when the time comes will it be more easier to put a penis in than a dildo. im just worried it wont go in now. :s-smilie:



When you have sex for the first time, your body should respond to your feelings of arousal and should make it easier. It might take a little while initially but the guy should be patient with that. Engage in plenty of foreplay beforehand, that will help too. Most of all, don't be worried or concerned as that will make it more difficult. Just relax and enjoy yourself. Hopefully you'll be with someone who cares about you very much so you shouldn't feel stressed.
happyeverafterbelle
Rampant Rabbits are way too big if you're a virgin. I would invest in something a bit smaller to start off with, and use lube and lots of it.
Or like I said before, use your own fingers.


Definitely. You could try the smallest bullet they do in Ann Summers? I know lots of people who have it and love it.
Stick an umbrella inside and open it up.
wtfCharlie
Believe me, most of the 15yearolds I know - have a BIG interest in sex :rolleyes:

And plent of them are shagging around . . . great for young peeps reputation :L


Doesn't make a difference tho, you've gotta be 18 to buy a sex toy. That's why they don't make too many bog standard ones.. Only kids could be scared of a dildo..

p.s Unless you have dildaphobia, which is more than likely made up on my behalf :rolleyes:
Reply 18
Actually, thinking about it - surely it isn't too big at all. The overall length may be 7.5 but the insertable length would be something like 5 inches.
RichyFrench
Doesn't make a difference tho, you've gotta be 18 to buy a sex toy. That's why they don't make too many bog standard ones.. Only kids could be scared of a dildo..

p.s Unless you have dildaphobia, which is more than likely made up on my behalf :rolleyes:


Actually, I'm 20 and know what she's on about. They are all really huge looking. Even ones which are the same size as my boyfriend look far too big and scary. I've got a dildo and a bullet... and I prefer using the tiny bullet.