tensing masterbating

i only seem to have a 'nice' feeling when i tense all my muscles in my legs, its like i cant just relax, i dont seem to get the same sensation. is this normal? and it gives me and urge to be pentrates by something big rather than just a finger.

i can only take the feeling when tensing for like 10 seconds too..

is this normal. ive never orgasmed but im very new to masterbating

Reply 1

GottaLovePhysics! :)

17

I do the same, but im a guy. But I dont know why you can only do it for 10 seconds, thats a bit odd.
FWI: Dont do it too hard, or youll pull a hamstring, and that will be painful and not something your going to want to explain to your parents :p:

I suggest to you, to DONT tense up, and do it for longer, youll get there, but not through 10 second bursts :no:

Reply 2

girl0808

OP

2

GottaLovePhysics! :)

I do the same, but im a guy. But I dont know why you can only do it for 10 seconds, thats a bit odd.
FWI: Dont do it too hard, or youll pull a hamstring, and that will be painful and not something your going to want to explain to your parents :p:

I suggest to you, to DONT tense up, and do it for longer, youll get there, but not through 10 second bursts :no:

but i cant hold my body in that tensed position for very long

Reply 3

badboy1

7

that turned me on, lose the finger, employ me

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

My legs twitch when I flick my bean... is that weird?

Reply 5

RichyFrench

14

Tensing helps me get there quicker and it's more intense but shorter, if I relax it takes a lot longer but then the O is a lot longer :biggrin:

It doesn't really matter what's normal or not. Whatever works for you is best so just enjoy exploring.. Make sure you've got a lot of time on your hands when you won't be disturbed and try different things, see what you enjoy..

Reply 6

happyeverafterbelle

As in tensing your actual leg muslces or tensing the 'kegel muscles'?

Reply 7

Anonymous #2

but i feel like i cant enjoy the pleasure cuz im having to keep my body tense

but if i dont tense i dont get the same sensation

Reply 8

MMODT

8

Have you tried doing it standing up or kneeling up? Your legs are naturally more tensed and it's not as uncomfortable.

Reply 9

Philosopher-of-sorts

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GottaLovePhysics! :)

FWI: Dont do it too hard, or youll pull a hamstring, and that will be painful and not something your going to want to explain to your parents :p:

BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

That is all. :biggrin:

Reply 10

tropical-twist3

18

I think when you orgasm your muscles inside your vag tense/contract quickly, like pulsing, (it helps draw in the sperm through the cervix) so when you're tensing your other muslces around that area it's kinda like your body is encouraging the orgasm quicker....either way, don't worry about it

And anon #2, yeah that's fine too, don't worry about it

Reply 11

GottaLovePhysics! :)

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girl0808

but i cant hold my body in that tensed position for very long

Then dont. Relax and do it for longer.

Reply 12

Imanidiot123

1

So what is u tense during intercorse with someone btw in a guy

Reply 13

Imanidiot123

1

So should I tense during sex btw in a guy

Original post by GottaLovePhysics! :)

I do the same, but im a guy. But I dont know why you can only do it for 10 seconds, thats a bit odd.
FWI: Dont do it too hard, or youll pull a hamstring, and that will be painful and not something your going to want to explain to your parents :p:

I suggest to you, to DONT tense up, and do it for longer, youll get there, but not through 10 second bursts :no:

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