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    there is a gal i nmy school..she is quite pretty and is not really a friend to anyone in the school....pretty mysterious..nd i am not able to meet her a lot......but it was love at first site.
    I told her but she said that she had a b/f..............what should i do, shuld i still pursue her....and if, how ???
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    (Original post by prince_capri)
    there is a gal i nmy school..she is quite pretty and is not really a friend to anyone in the school....pretty mysterious..nd i am not able to meet her a lot......but it was love at first site.
    I told her but she said that she had a b/f..............what should i do, shuld i still pursue her....and if, how ???
    if u really loved her, then u wudnt be asking us what to do, u wud know..for sure..
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    (Original post by prince_capri)
    there is a gal i nmy school..she is quite pretty and is not really a friend to anyone in the school....pretty mysterious..nd i am not able to meet her a lot......but it was love at first site.
    I told her but she said that she had a b/f..............what should i do, shuld i still pursue her....and if, how ???
    Umm,

    Get to know her? Girls can have other male friends as well as their boyfriend, right?
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    (Original post by prince_capri)
    there is a gal i nmy school..she is quite pretty and is not really a friend to anyone in the school....pretty mysterious..nd i am not able to meet her a lot......but it was love at first site.
    I told her but she said that she had a b/f..............what should i do, shuld i still pursue her....and if, how ???
    have a break, have a kik kat.
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    (Original post by Bhaal85)
    have a break, have a kik kat.
    lol.
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    Just be her friend for now and get to know more about her
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    Well it seems to me that you don't really know that much about her...so how can you be in love with her, if you don't know her entire background and so on? Get to know her, get a grip on your emotions, take a backward step and once you know her better, ask yourself then whether you still love her. If you do, then pursue it . But for God's sake don't do anything silly - it may not be "love" in the way you know it. There are many people who are in love with the idea of being in love - don't fall into that trap.
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    (Original post by NeuroticSurgeon)
    Well it seems to me that you don't really know that much about her...so how can you be in love with her, if you don't know her entire background and so on? Get to know her, get a grip on your emotions, take a backward step and once you know her better, ask yourself then whether you still love her. If you do, then pursue it . But for God's sake don't do anything silly - it may not be "love" in the way you know it. There are many people who are in love with the idea of being in love - don't fall into that trap.
    I think the thread starter is confusing love with attraction.
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    (Original post by ShOcKzZ)
    if u really loved her, then u wudnt be asking us what to do, u wud know..for sure..

    maybe u r right...but i do not really understand what to tell her !!!
    Can u really help ???
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    (Original post by Bhaal85)
    have a break, have a kik kat.

    thanx,............but it did not really help !!!
    I was expexting more.
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    I would advise that you pursue her - but only for my own amusement.
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    ohhhh.....agony aunt is coming darling!
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    (Original post by Mr White)
    I would advise that you pursue her - but only for my own amusement.

    was that a real help..........at least i do not think so.
    Probably just another mail to increase ur number of mails !!!
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    (Original post by prince_capri)
    was that a real help..........at least i do not think so.
    Probably just another mail to increase ur number of mails !!!
    another mail? Is it a male that you are persuing?
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    (Original post by prince_capri)
    was that a real help..........at least i do not think so.
    Probably just another mail to increase ur number of mails !!!
    mr. white doesnt NEED to increase his post count, he like me, is a demigod!
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    (Original post by prince_capri)
    was that a real help..........at least i do not think so.
    Probably just another mail to increase ur number of mails !!!
    You know, if this girl of your's already said no, then the chances of her changing her mind simply because you're persistent are minimal. Aim low, that way you stand a better chance of succeeding.
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    (Original post by Mr White)
    You know, if this girl of your's already said no, then the chances or her changing her mind simply because you're persistent are minimal. Aim low, that way you stand a better chance of succeeding.
    mr white, have you heard? i am not DEMIGOD! YAY
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    (Original post by Mr White)
    You know, if this girl of your's already said no, then the chances or her changing her mind simply because you're persistent are minimal. Aim low, that way you stand a better chance of succeeding.
    lol. That was funny, and cynically quite true. If she said NO, firt time round, she obviously doesn't wanna go out with you. Perhaps she also lied about having a boyfriend.
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    (Original post by curryADD)
    mr white, have you heard? i am not DEMIGOD! YAY
    Here, have some niceties.
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    (Original post by Bhaal85)
    lol. That was funny, and cynically quite true. If she said NO, firt time round, she obviously doesn't wanna go out with you. Perhaps she also lied about having a boyfriend.
    i've done that before.......
 
 
 
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