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Is there actual Genuine men out there who don't watch porn?

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Reply 80
x_icefox_x
Just a general thought into if there is any men out there who don't watch pornography and if not why do you choose not to?
I'm getting tired of people saying that if your boyfriend tells you he is not watching porn he is lying and only saying it to make you happy, does this mean they are just saying that to cover up their own use of porn and make it look as though all men do it so they can do it or is their genuine guys out there who don't?


This is why I don't watch porn (watch the full-length preview):

http://www.mediaed.org/cgi-bin/commerce.cgi?preadd=action&key=235

and because of some the views expressed on some of the other videos on that site.
Reply 81
I dont watch porn- I cant stand the stuff, and Im morally against it!
I am straight btw :smile:
Reply 82
jblackmoustache
Exactly. I don't think porn is anything to be dumped over.

It's a problem when porn starts taking over your life and affecting those around you. I think it's ok occasionally looking at it (hey we're men!), but if you're whole life revolves around porn and you live a life like Quagmire from Family Guy then you have a problem! Porn can be like crack cocaine to some people.


LOL at the girls who think their boyfriend doesn't watch porn. Get real :rolleyes:


Wow this bugs me. Is it so hard to believe that some people are in honest, loving relationships? My boyfriend can't lie to anyone, let alone me. He can't even surprise me without telling me about it first. He doesn't watch porn and I know this for a fact. He doesn't need to, he doesn't want to.
Reply 83
I don't usually watch porn. But then again I'm hardly a "genuine man" :rolleyes:

Pretty much all boys watch porn, you have to concede them it. If your boyfriend does and it gets to you there's a simple way you can keep everyone happy :wink:
gingergooner
Obviously its always going to be a generalisation, but I haven't met anyone who has actually said to me they don't I'll put it that way, they either say they do or say nothing. I assume pretty much everyone does...


Second this. I'm sure the same applies to guys + masturbation too (?)
some lads don't watch porn, it just doesn't do anything for them but those that do only watch it for the same reason as girls... visual stimulation is more often than not more powerful and quicker than the good old imagination.

i don't have an issue with it but i know some girls just don't like the idea. don't always assume that they're lying as there are a few that don't watch it, you just need to find them. good luck on your quest :smile:
LOL at all the women in this thread saying "my bf doesn't watch porn! How do I know? he told me!"

Trust me, simpy telling you he doesn't watch porn is far, far simpler than telling you the truth about all the depraved anal-fisting, gang-banging, cum-eating, throat-gagging filth he gets off on.
Reply 87
campy
Yeah, it must be so unsatisfactory to have a real woman to look forward to at night/to not find something so hideous and boring as porn enticing

I voted for my boyfriend: he genuinely doesn't watch porn. He used to when he was a teen, long before we dated, but he grew out of it. (FYI, no he's not lying. He couldn't lie if he tried)


You sound like bundles of fun :teehee:
Reply 88
I was talking about this with my boyfriend not long ago. He is in his late twenties and he said although he did watch it when he was younger, it's something that he's grown out of. I don't think I would have a problem if he did watch it, as although we live together, he sometimes works away and he may be more likely to want to for obvious reasons. He knows I am open minded enough to not mind so would have no reason to lie. To all the patronising little boys saying 'lol at her naivety' etc, grow up and stop being so narrow-minded. Not all guys have the same preferences as yourself, as some have pointed out on this thread.
why do girls in relationship think just cause they have a boyfriend then the guy is fully satisfied, i saw some article claiming guys in relationship do watch porn but alot less than guys who are not in relationship.

where do you think the guys get the "moves" from, he isn't born with it. I mean all people is curious, thus they wanna learn more and quoting John Bishop"so since everything now-a-days is visual i thought the best way to explain would be to stick a porno on."
I don't know one guy who doesn't watch porn.
Reply 91
Byllie
You sound like bundles of fun :teehee:


I believe that I am
Reply 92
JohnnytheFox
LOL at all the women in this thread saying "my bf doesn't watch porn! How do I know? he told me!"

Trust me, simpy telling you he doesn't watch porn is far, far simpler than telling you the truth about all the depraved anal-fisting, gang-banging, cum-eating, throat-gagging filth he gets off on.


Not all men are as disgusting and dishonest as you.
I know one who gave it up because he said it's immoral because he's Christian. Wtf.
Porn is amazing. It's basically comedy with naked "characters". :cyber:
Potential Trigger
I watch porn and I like it and my gf knows it :smile:

I consider myself a Porn Connoisseur :laugh: All about being sexually free :wink:


What site would you recommend?
I don't watch porn.
Casshern1456
why do girls in relationship think just cause they have a boyfriend then the guy is fully satisfied, i saw some article claiming guys in relationship do watch porn but alot less than guys who are not in relationship.

where do you think the guys get the "moves" from, he isn't born with it. I mean all people is curious, thus they wanna learn more and quoting John Bishop"so since everything now-a-days is visual i thought the best way to explain would be to stick a porno on."


The truth. We don't say it just to wind you up ladies. We're saying it because it's the truth.

Maybe there's a small fraction of guys who don't watch porn, but the majority of guys do or would have been exposed to it at some time in their lives. Guys who are single and not getting much/any sex will watch it more though.

Ladies, you don't even know how dirty minded you boyfriend is. There's things he wants to do but he's too scared to ask you.



I can understand why women hate porn though. It's an artform created by men and for men. It's sexist.
Reply 98
*Darcie*
I was talking about this with my boyfriend not long ago. He is in his late twenties and he said although he did watch it when he was younger, it's something that he's grown out of. I don't think I would have a problem if he did watch it, as although we live together, he sometimes works away and he may be more likely to want to for obvious reasons. He knows I am open minded enough to not mind so would have no reason to lie. To all the patronising little boys saying 'lol at her naivety' etc, grow up and stop being so narrow-minded. Not all guys have the same preferences as yourself, as some have pointed out on this thread.


This. Although I think I'd probably be a bit worried if my boyfriend suddenly started watching porn now, I was totally prepared for him to watch porn at the beginning of our relationship. I was shocked to find out that he hadn't watched any for a year or two. He just didn't find it appealing anymore. And that was before he was sexually active-so I don't necessarily think watching porn/not watching porn is to do with sexual satisfaction.
My ex genuinely did not watch porn.
I watched more than him.
But tbh he had more girly tendencies than I did.