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Is there actual Genuine men out there who don't watch porn?
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campy
So you know exactly how all men like to spend their time? I feel sad that you've clearly never had an honest relationship. My boyfriend does not watch porn. He laughs at the fact that he used to as nothing could seem so unattractive to him now.
Yehh, and I am sure he finds all other women apart from you repulsive.
Mr_Spoof
And ususally the acting is so bad it's painful:
LETS GET RID OF THE BODY
Gotta love totally unprovoked psychopathic moments.
Most guys would tell girls that they don't watch porn in order to make themselves seem less seedy, or to make girls think that they don't think about sex 24/7.
campy
No but he doesn't find them attractive. He's just not that guy. He doesn't view girls as being 'the opposite sex' as it were.
My god you're seriously deluded if you actually believe that.
I used to watch porn quite a bit but tbh I havent really watched any for like a year now ... just ive basically been living with my girlfriend so tbh ive not had much of a need. And when i have had the need im with her so i can hardly grab a laptop and tell her to shut up for half hour lol
campy
No but he doesn't find them attractive. He's just not that guy. He doesn't view girls as being 'the opposite sex' as it were.
My boyfriend is kind of like that too. Of course everyone will tell us that we're just stupid and naive
I have been with my guy for three and a half years and we have an extremely high level of trust. He has no reason to lie to me - he knows I find other guys attractive, for example. We've had lengthy conversations on the topic and he even says that when he was single he wasn't the sort to just check girls out when they were walking down the street. Friends have accused him of being gay because he wouldn't really notice hot girls! He'd only really notice if someone were attractive if he got to know them a bit. He is always telling me how desirable and beautiful he finds me (he is certainly not gay, although I am expecting that accusation to be made), and that he thinks I'm the most beautiful woman in the world. I've never pushed for compliments like these in any way. Before we were going out, we went on a bar crawl with friends and a girl next to us at the bar dropped a load of money. She was wearing skimpy clothing and obviously trying to get his attention in the way she asked for his help and acted ... but he just picked up the money, gave it back to her and turned back to me.
I know this will be incomprehensible to many, who will then resort to attacking me or my boyfriend for my saying all this, but meh. I'm very happy with him.
fox_the_fix
My god you're seriously deluded if you actually believe that.
Why is it so impossible to believe that a guy can look at a girl regardless of how 'pretty' she is without finding her attractive? I do the same with guys-I can see when someone is good looking but it doesn't make me attracted to them because my boyfriend is gorgeous and I love him and he feels the same about me. Maybe we're both deluded-but hey, that's just the way it is. we are attracted only to each other and we are very happy.
Jelkin
My boyfriend is kind of like that too. Of course everyone will tell us that we're just stupid and naive
I have been with my guy for three and a half years and we have an extremely high level of trust. He has no reason to lie to me - he knows I find other guys attractive, for example. We've had lengthy conversations on the topic and he even says that when he was single he wasn't the sort to just check girls out when they were walking down the street. Friends have accused him of being gay because he wouldn't really notice hot girls! He'd only really notice if someone were attractive if he got to know them a bit. He is always telling me how desirable and beautiful he finds me (he is certainly not gay, although I am expecting that accusation to be made), and that he thinks I'm the most beautiful woman in the world. I've never pushed for compliments like these in any way. Before we were going out, we went on a bar crawl with friends and a girl next to us at the bar dropped a load of money. She was wearing skimpy clothing and obviously trying to get his attention in the way she asked for his help and acted ... but he just picked up the money, gave it back to her and turned back to me.
I know this will be incomprehensible to many, who will then resort to attacking me or my boyfriend for my saying all this, but meh. I'm very happy with him.
I have been with my guy for three and a half years and we have an extremely high level of trust. He has no reason to lie to me - he knows I find other guys attractive, for example. We've had lengthy conversations on the topic and he even says that when he was single he wasn't the sort to just check girls out when they were walking down the street. Friends have accused him of being gay because he wouldn't really notice hot girls! He'd only really notice if someone were attractive if he got to know them a bit. He is always telling me how desirable and beautiful he finds me (he is certainly not gay, although I am expecting that accusation to be made), and that he thinks I'm the most beautiful woman in the world. I've never pushed for compliments like these in any way. Before we were going out, we went on a bar crawl with friends and a girl next to us at the bar dropped a load of money. She was wearing skimpy clothing and obviously trying to get his attention in the way she asked for his help and acted ... but he just picked up the money, gave it back to her and turned back to me.
I know this will be incomprehensible to many, who will then resort to attacking me or my boyfriend for my saying all this, but meh. I'm very happy with him.
This is all completely the same for me. Also it really pisses me off how everyone is attacking me. I didn't say anything controversial or offensive, I simply said that my boyfriend does not watch porn and would not enjoy it. Why is this so hard to believe?
My bf does not watch porn at all. If I put it on as a joke he just grimaces and turns it off. He said that he doesn't get turned on by it, which is fair enough really.
Though he was an innocent lad before I corrupted him
Though he was an innocent lad before I corrupted him
Watching porn is to live out a fantasy.
It isn't a bad thing - nor does it indicated that your other half is sexually unsatisfied or doesn't find you attractive. Just leave the man be.
Only when there is an addiction does it become a problem. I'm not embarrased to say I have about 10 GB of porn, and my other half knows and probably has likewise.
Its all fictional and not always like real life. Some of it is downright cheesy and hysterical, but its always nice to look at the pretty boys
As a friend says: "Once you've seen one of them, you've seen them all. And you almost always know exactly how it is going to end"
It isn't a bad thing - nor does it indicated that your other half is sexually unsatisfied or doesn't find you attractive. Just leave the man be.
Only when there is an addiction does it become a problem. I'm not embarrased to say I have about 10 GB of porn, and my other half knows and probably has likewise.
Its all fictional and not always like real life. Some of it is downright cheesy and hysterical, but its always nice to look at the pretty boys
As a friend says: "Once you've seen one of them, you've seen them all. And you almost always know exactly how it is going to end"
I am a girl, so I voted on behalf of my father
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