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Subtley telling a guy you like him...(Or getting him to like you ;)

Both my friend and I have a similar issue...We like two guys who don't really know it yet. We want them to know, but we don't want to make absolute fools of ourselves. Does anybody know a subtle way of telling them? :confused:

Reply 1

matrix99

Msn!!

Reply 2

mustave

Tell them to take you out and then tell them, they'll figure it out once you tell them, you want go out with them.

Or wait until Valentine's day.

Reply 3

What's Chico Time Precious?

12

A combination of whispering and/or prodding. :-/

Just tell them? You'd be foolish not to...

Reply 4

unfinished sympathy

15

nope i always cock that part up- sorry but good luck

Reply 5

xx_ambellina_xx

14

If I ever found out how to make people like me, I'd let you know.

Reply 6

matrix99

xx_ambellina_xx

If I ever found out how to make people like me, I'd let you know.

There r 6billion people around the world .... this means there r 6billlion personatlities , 6billion opinions , 6 billion chances of finding ur love......

Reply 7

pissface

OP

Absolution

A combination of whispering and/or prodding. :-/

Just tell them? You'd be foolish not to...

But we're scared to tell them! We're already good friends with them, and don't want to screw our friendship up... :frown:

Reply 8

Fresh Prince

~*PinkTeaCozy*~

But we're scared to tell them! We're already good friends with them, and don't want to screw our friendship up... :frown:

I'm in a similar situation where I don't want to loose a friend if she doesn't feel the same way. My advice...heheh...is to get the convosation going in a direction where he talked about relationships and see how he responds. There's no easy way, everything involves risk!

Good Luck!

Reply 9

jpowell

15

Ask them to join you for a game of naked monopoly.

Reply 10

yeahyeahyeahs

16

~*PinkTeaCozy*~

But we're scared to tell them! We're already good friends with them, and don't want to screw our friendship up... :frown:

try subtle firting and eye contact, if they flirt back then your in.

Reply 11

xelprep

just tell him. if he says no, then stop being friends with him because you wont be able to after he says "no" anyway. and if you dont tell him then you'll be bugging yourself for the rest of your life. when you get older and maybe not know him you'll think "what would life be like now if i told him?". but you should know if he likes you or not by now, it's obvious. if you tell him in your room, make sure you got spare bed spreads. you dont want your mom thinking he stabbed you in the bed :biggrin:

Reply 12

indiechick2kuk

1

ask if u can lick his face he might get the message then :biggrin:

Reply 13

Naxalite

matrix99

There r 6billion people around the world .... this means there r 6billlion personatlities , 6billion opinions , 6 billion chances of finding ur love......

ummm, i guess if they are bisexual and child molestors they have 6 billion options... otherwise it is much less.

Reply 14

pissface

OP

yeahyeahyeahs

try subtle firting and eye contact, if they flirt back then your in.

Well, publicly I'm not much for flirting, but I do flirt a bit over text messaging w/him and he appears to flirt back...But I dunno if he's just kidding around. :frown:

I don't know how I would involve him in a discussion about relationships without sounding obvious...Our usual conversations consist of school, favorite bands, school, friends, and did I mention school? :rolleyes:

Reply 15

pissface

OP

indiechick2kuk

ask if u can lick his face he might get the message then :biggrin:

hahaha!!!

I just might try that. My friend suggested just walking up and kissing him to see what type of reaction I get :biggrin:

Reply 16

pissface

OP

This is one of our phone conversations...We have many. Sound like we have anything at all? :confused:

Me: Hey, wuts up w/u? -kisses- lol

Him: Not much, and you? -kisses- :wink:

Me: Noth'n rlly. just lookin at pictures right now. i found one of u. u look so cute! lol. kisses!

Him: did u find the pics on my site or somewhere else? anyway, thx for the compliment. now im blushing and it's your fault! Lol. kisses

Me: No, i was lookin at a photo album from the school dance. and you did look cute! haha!

Him: lol, ok. i look stupid in all my pix!

Me: No u don't! u look fine...most of the time. lol!

Him: ok, ill believe you. but I wanna see those pix. think you can bring them monday?

Me: yeh sure..lol

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Here's another one:

Me: hey! how come u couldnt make it last night? r we not good enough for you? lol. jk

Him: oh no, Im the one who's not good enough for all of you! Lol! Yeah, I couldn't get a ride over there by 8:30.

Him: im sorry, I really wanted to come! kisses.

Me: lol. aw, its ok. it was alot of fun and we'll b doing it again so u can come next time :wink:

-hugs-

Him: okidoki! hopefully ill be able to go this time around!

Me: Lol. me too :wink:

Reply 17

yo-less

2

AMM

Ask them to join you for a game of naked monopoly.

brilliant suggestion! :biggrin:

Reply 18

Amlea

1

lol

Reply 19

MC REN

14

go see a scary film at the cinema (or a not-so-scary film if you want) and then take his hand and see how he reacts

if he responds well then you're in
if he doesn't respond well just say you were scared, and still be friends

could work

Subtley telling a guy you like him...(Or getting him to like you ;)

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