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My mate dumped her bf for stupid reasons

She dumped her bf after 2 days because he was boring and he wore fake brand clothing :eek: I was well shocked when she told me, because she seemed happy with him, but it really makes me angry that she said that, oh I hate people like that :mad: who depend on appearance, and he was that type of guy I'd hold on forever he was almost perfect. Before him she was with this other guy from her uni and was only with him for a week and a half, and I remember after 3 days she was like, I'm in love with him. :confused:
Here's the chat log.

Howdy!!!! says:
hows ur bf?
Bogazici BabE says:
no bf right now
Bogazici BabE says:
will hav non for a while
Bogazici BabE says:
took a break
Howdy!!!! says:
wat happened?
Bogazici BabE says:
got bored at the 2nd day
Bogazici BabE says:
broke uop
Bogazici BabE says:
uo
Howdy!!!! says:
,
Bogazici BabE says:
up
Bogazici BabE says:
same as before
Howdy!!!! says:
how can u get ? whats boring about them?
Bogazici BabE says:
u hav internet?no time prooblem ha?whenever i come u are here
if u will be available for along time,in ten days i will be online 7/24.universty thing
Howdy!!!! says:
oh . I start university on the 26th sept.
Bogazici BabE says:
so i would say that we can be before sharin what we had in a day.all our laughters and pains
Bogazici BabE says:
me on the 20th of sept
Howdy!!!! says:
good luck with it. But 1st year just chill, its not all important.
Bogazici BabE says:
so u wont be online.this means we wont hav so long time to chat.ha
Bogazici BabE says:
?
Howdy!!!! says:
when i start uni, I never come on the internet, only sometimes, Im usually busy, t give u so much work to do.
Bogazici BabE says:
yep know
Bogazici BabE says:
i got bored cuz
Bogazici BabE says:
he had clothes which are imitation of the brands
Bogazici BabE says:
i hate it
Bogazici BabE says:
if u dont enough money to hav it
Bogazici BabE says:
dont wear it
Bogazici BabE says:
so simple
Howdy!!!! says:
that is mean though
Bogazici BabE says:
u wanna c my house?
Howdy!!!! says:
yeah lets see
Bogazici BabE says:
wait a minute
Bogazici BabE says:
i will find the photos
Howdy!!!! says:

Bogazici BabE says:
this is the building where i will stay
Bogazici BabE sends:

Open(Alt+P)
Bogazici BabE says:
accapt
Bogazici BabE says:
plz
Howdy!!!! says:
lo s nice from outside
Howdy!!!! says:
what floor?
Bogazici BabE sends:

Open(Alt+P)
Bogazici BabE says:
this is my living room
Howdy!!!! says:
oooo wooden flooring


Do you have mates like that, that carry on dumping their bf/gf's after dating them for a few days/week?
And mates that say they are in love with someone, and then after a week in love with someone else?

Love BlueAngel xxx

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Reply 1
I can't respect anyone like that, thats disgusting
Reply 2
sounds like a bit of a nonce to be honest....she did the guy a favour!
Reply 3
omg how pathetic is that? its the type of thing expected of 12yr olds. or at least reminds me of "relationships" in year8 when u went out with someone for a week. not that i ever did that :wink: she obviously didnt take the time to get to know the actual person, tho he is probably better off without her if she makes those sort of judgements. id feel really bad if someone dumped me over something insignificant like that.
ogazici BabE says:
i got bored cuz

how come it says ogazici babe here instead of Bogazici?

if you copied and pasted fully that wouldn't happen, me sences we ain't getting the full story here.
I really hate people like that. :mad: :mad: They take the good nice guys away from us, and dump them after they bed them. I would never do that :eek: well then again maybe thats why I havent got a bf :redface:
marisad_uk
ogazici BabE says:
i got bored cuz

how come it says ogazici babe here instead of Bogazici?

if you copied and pasted fully that wouldn't happen, me sences we ain't getting the full story here.

thats cos she change the subject after that, lol, started talking about uni, and then went back to it. here u want it all, here then. Some people are so fussy :rolleyes: :biggrin:

Howdy!!!! says:
hows ur bf?
Bogazici BabE says:
no bf right now
Bogazici BabE says:
will hav non for a while
Bogazici BabE says:
took a break
Howdy!!!! says:
wat happened?
Bogazici BabE says:
got bored at the 2nd day
Bogazici BabE says:
broke uop
Bogazici BabE says:
uo
Howdy!!!! says:
,
Bogazici BabE says:
up
Bogazici BabE says:
same as before
Howdy!!!! says:
how can u get ? whats boring about them?
Bogazici BabE says:
u hav internet?no time prooblem ha?whenever i come u are here
if u will be available for along time,in ten days i will be online 7/24.universty thing
Howdy!!!! says:
oh . I start university on the 26th sept.
Bogazici BabE says:
so i would say that we can be before sharin what we had in a day.all our laughters and pains
Bogazici BabE says:
me on the 20th of sept
Howdy!!!! says:
good luck with it. But 1st year just chill, its not all important.
Bogazici BabE says:
so u wont be online.this means we wont hav so long time to chat.ha
Bogazici BabE says:
?
Howdy!!!! says:
when i start uni, I never come on the internet, only sometimes, Im usually busy, t give u so much work to do.
Bogazici BabE says:
yep know
Bogazici BabE says:
i got bored cuz
Bogazici BabE says:
he had clothes which are imitation of the brands
Bogazici BabE says:
i hate it
Bogazici BabE says:
if u dont enough money to hav it
Bogazici BabE says:
dont wear it
Bogazici BabE says:
so simple
Howdy!!!! says:
that is mean though
Bogazici BabE says:
u wanna c my house?
Howdy!!!! says:
yeah lets see
Bogazici BabE says:
wait a minute
Bogazici BabE says:
i will find the photos
Howdy!!!! says:

Bogazici BabE says:
this is the building where i will stay
Bogazici BabE sends:

Open(Alt+P)
Bogazici BabE says:
accapt
Bogazici BabE says:
plz
Howdy!!!! says:
lo s nice from outside
Howdy!!!! says:
what floor?
Bogazici BabE sends:

Open(Alt+P)
Bogazici BabE says:
this is my living room
Howdy!!!! says:
oooo wooden flooring
Reply 7
marisad_uk
ogazici BabE says:
i got bored cuz

how come it says ogazici babe here instead of Bogazici?

if you copied and pasted fully that wouldn't happen, me sences we ain't getting the full story here.



it would if she c&pd in two sections and missed the first letter off, as does happen.
Reply 8
marisad_uk
ogazici BabE says:
i got bored cuz

how come it says ogazici babe here instead of Bogazici?

if you copied and pasted fully that wouldn't happen, me sences we ain't getting the full story here.


my thoughts exactly!!
Ok peeps, I put it all :rolleyes:
Reply 10
Some people can be so picky. :rolleyes:

No offence but your mate sounds stupid, materialistic, annoying and snobbish! One day she'll get rid of the perfect guy (if she hasn't already) and end up all alone! :biggrin: :p:


:eek: Look at my post count! :evil:
Reply 11
lol the complete convo makes even less sense! she seems like the type of person whos always jumping around topics...no wonder she gets bored easily!
Reply 12
BlueAngel
I really hate people like that. :mad: :mad: They take the good nice guys away from us, and dump them after they bed them. I would never do that :eek: well then again maybe thats why I havent got a bf :redface:


thats probably the reason why all the nice guys turn into b*stards :frown:
cherryade
lol the complete convo makes even less sense! she seems like the type of person whos always jumping around topics...no wonder she gets bored easily!

I think shes feeling guilty, or needs time. When I asked her, why she finds them boring , she just changed the topic again, but then went back to it, probably after she thought about it. Weird.
gemma123
thats probably the reason why all the nice guys turn into b*stards :frown:

Yes, I dont think there are any nice guys left :frown:
i have a friend who was just texting a guy and she was like "i love him. im going to get married to him and have all his children". they used to sit up for hours and hours in the night talking about how much they loved each other even tho they had never met and he had a girlfriend. eventually they just didnt speak to each other anymore. i thort it was pretty pathetic tbh - she didnt know the guy and she was like "oh i love him, i love him" and then she'd just sleep around. it did my head in.
Reply 16
BlueAngel
Yes, I dont think there are any nice guys left :frown:

Noooooooo! :eek: Please let there be at least one for me!! :biggrin:
Little Girl Red
i have a friend who was just texting a guy and she was like "i love him. im going to get married to him and have all his children". they used to sit up for hours and hours in the night talking about how much they loved each other even tho they had never met and he had a girlfriend. eventually they just didnt speak to each other anymore. i thort it was pretty pathetic tbh - she didnt know the guy and she was like "oh i love him, i love him" and then she'd just sleep around. it did my head in.

You dont have to know the guy fully to be in love with him, I love someone but i hardly know them, but I know its love, cos its been there for years and grew stronger over the years.
I also dont beleve in love at first sight, so I agree with you there, it is stupid, but you will always get some who use the word love to everything and link likeness to love, and some people who on the other hand only use it when its real, I guess everyones different.
sorry didn't mean to cause offence, not accusing you but you know what people are like for posting bogus stories on here!random conv, she seems kinda hyper which is a good thing, maybe the clothes thing is an excuse and there is a deeper reason behind it she doesn't want to share.Or maybe she is looking for "Mr.Perfect "and won't settle for less. I would never "dump" someone for that but maybe that is important to her and she thought they would argue about that all the time, as in she thinks hes cheap/scruffy doesn't respect him for that, he thinks shes too snobby etc etc. There will probably be someone more suited to each of them they can be happy with, you mentioned you thought the guy was almost perfect, any reason you can't give it a shot with him?
Reply 19
BlueAngel
I think shes feeling guilty, or needs time. When I asked her, why she finds them boring , she just changed the topic again, but then went back to it, probably after she thought about it. Weird.


yea she probably just needs time. im no psycologist tho! :smile: