sorry didn't mean to cause offence, not accusing you but you know what people are like for posting bogus stories on here!random conv, she seems kinda hyper which is a good thing, maybe the clothes thing is an excuse and there is a deeper reason behind it she doesn't want to share.Or maybe she is looking for "Mr.Perfect "and won't settle for less. I would never "dump" someone for that but maybe that is important to her and she thought they would argue about that all the time, as in she thinks hes cheap/scruffy doesn't respect him for that, he thinks shes too snobby etc etc. There will probably be someone more suited to each of them they can be happy with, you mentioned you thought the guy was almost perfect, any reason you can't give it a shot with him?