So I lost my virginity to this girl i've been seeing. We'd been kissing and fooling round for quite a while. When we actually had sex, I came after about 30 seconds. Is this something to be worried about ?
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Lost my virginity and it was pretty fast watch
- Thread Starter
- 19-05-2010 15:34
- 19-05-2010 18:31
Don't worry about it, many people don't last long their first time
It's nothing to be worried or ashamed about
- 19-05-2010 19:03
Maybe look into Durex Performa for next time.
- 19-05-2010 19:48
nah no problem at all happened to all of us
- Community Assistant
- 21-05-2010 12:49
It is common, but so is not being able to come.
If it continues to happen, you need to learn to spot the signs that you're close to coming so you can do something to delay it. See a million and one other threads.
- 21-05-2010 13:24
My boyfriend was done in no time the first time
It's your first time cut yourself some slack! This will become a problem if it persists, but I expect you will start to last longer without much effort.
- 21-05-2010 13:32
Dude?!!?!? 30 Seconds?!?!?!?!?!? Thats like SONIC FAST MAN!!! Dude! *facepalm*
Nah, it happens, don't worry about it. Before long, you'll be going for ages
- 23-05-2010 13:48
Nah it is nothing to worry about as it was your first time.
- 23-05-2010 21:06
- 23-05-2010 21:12
It's pretty normal. =)
My boyfriend of 8 months came in approximately 1minute last time I saw him, because he hadn't seen me for a week, and hadn't had the time to masturbate in between. So really, it happens. xD
[just for everyone's convenience, he's normally pretty considerate with it, coming after 40 odd minutes or so).
It's nothing to worry about, it was your first time, you didn't know how it was going to feel. You were excited. Great pleasure. Something new. Expectations. Probably extremely aroused. Etc, Etc...
Lots of people are unable to control when they ejaculate the first time. xD
=) Just learn how to control it (perhaps experiment while you're masturbating?)