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If someone never opens a conversation on msn...
If someone never opens a conversation on msn messenger with you when you sign in, but is usually friendly with you when you chat to them, does that mean they don't like you, but are in fact faking it?
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Reply 2
maybe they're just shy and don't like to make the first move in case you don't wanna speak to them...
i was gonna reply with something stupid, but this isn't as bad a question as i first thought.
maybe they're shy, lazy, talking to to others, or are doing other stuff on the internet to pass the time. i never start conversations unless i have something specific to ask, but i'm happy to say talk when people send the famous "how r u"...
if they didnt like you, they would just ignore or block you.
maybe they're shy, lazy, talking to to others, or are doing other stuff on the internet to pass the time. i never start conversations unless i have something specific to ask, but i'm happy to say talk when people send the famous "how r u"...
if they didnt like you, they would just ignore or block you.
Reply 4
or just busy
Reply 5
it means they, like a lot of people, cannot be arsed.
Reply 8
They're probably talking to someone else or are busy
Reply 9
Yeah this happens to me all the time, especially with 1 of my best m8s. If he's online its always me who starts convos and he goes all weird on me, like id say hi and he'd go "cough" all the time...but then we see eachother at school and its perfectly normal! 
hmm...
hmm...Reply 10
i completely understand what u mean, sometimes i get insecure if it seems that i sign in and noone starts talking to me. the best thing is not to worry, just make the first move. if they continue the convo then im pretty sure they like u and want to speak to u, but there could be many reasons like the ones people have suggested eg being busy or not noticing u sign in. so relax about it! 
Reply 11
I know what you mean about initiating a conversation - you kinda feel like you're intruding. But if everyone felt like that - msn would be kinda quiet............
Reply 12
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bodhisattva
I know what you mean about initiating a conversation - you kinda feel like you're intruding...
Exactly!
Reply 15
I don't know about other people, but sometimes i turn the sound off and so if someone signs on, i don't notice, either that or i'm not paying attention to it half the time anyway... so i'd imagine they're probably just busy or don't have something specific to say, i wouldn't worry about it! Just as long as you don't mind initiating the conversation and they chat away with you after that, its fine
I've got some people on MSN that I talk to all the time in real life but never speak to on MSN... and people I talk to all the time on MSN but never in real life. Neither is meant to cause offense... if I don't talk to you in real life it's probably because I'm too shy, if I don't talk to you on MSN but do in real life it's just one of those things.
Reply 19
vinny221
You could delete all your contacts without blocking them so you cant see them come online but they can see you hence only they can begin a convo with you. That way you can avoid paranoia and enjoy a convo without feeling stupid.
Been there done that!!! And I feel so much better for it....plus if you do block them for about a month they're all warm and fuzzy when they see you again lol
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