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If you are in a loving and long term relationship is it right for the guy to still be watching porn? It just seems a bit odd they love you and yet they watch other women and god knows what else , If they went and did this to another woman in the street it would be classed as cheating but watching it is okay? is it time us women said no?????? help im confused!!!:eek3:
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Yes because one is active and the other is passive. One involves an emotional relationship the other is just a means to get off. Porn can never love you. Dont let anyone tell you otherwise.

Don't you ever fantasise (with or without porn) ?
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Porn's always fine.
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A man sometimes want to jack off, let him
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I really really don't understand why girls get so hurt when their boyfriend's watch porn??
I don't think I'll ever get my head around this concept.

What exactly is he cheating on you with? His hand?!

No, leave him to his porn. It's better that he releases himself via watching porn than with another girl. And before someone says "Oh but he can release himself by having sex with his girlfriend" - sometimes you need a break, you need a bit of change etc.

Stop being so uptight.

If anything, I would join in with watching of porn (unless it's obvious he wants some alone time) and then make some of our own! (Well minus the camera).
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(Original post by polaroid13)
I really really don't understand why girls get so hurt when their boyfriend's watch porn??
I don't think I'll ever get my head around this concept.

What exactly is he cheating on you with? His hand?!

No, leave him to his porn. It's better that he releases himself via watching porn than with another girl. And before someone says "Oh but he can release himself by having sex with his girlfriend" - sometimes you need a break, you need a bit of change etc.

Stop being so uptight.

If anything, I would join in with watching of porn (unless it's obvious he wants some alone time) and then make some of our own! (Well minus the camera).
Or boys when their girlfriends watch porn.

Polaroid pretty much sums it up: if someone wants to watch porn then that's their business. I personally hate porn and wouldn't watch it, but if I was with someone (though this is unlikely in itself as I'm not really into partnerships/etc at all) and they wanted to watch porn then that's their choice.
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Porn is healthy, that is my diagnosis.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
If you are in a loving and long term relationship is it right for the guy to still be watching porn? It just seems a bit odd they love you and yet they watch other women and god knows what else , If they went and did this to another woman in the street it would be classed as cheating but watching it is okay? is it time us women said no?????? help im confused!!!:eek3:
Watching porn isn't the same as having an affair, there is no contact with another human being. Horror films are there to evoke fear, porn is there fore another purpose, it's just another genre of adult entertainment, so long as it's made ethically etc etc etc.

Regardless of whether 'us women said no' guys would still do it. Also, some women watch porn too, so it isn't just a one gender are 'cheating' thing. :dontknow:
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It's sooo right. :yep:
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(Original post by Thingeh)
Or boys when their girlfriends watch porn.

Polaroid pretty much sums it up: if someone wants to watch porn then that's their business.
:lolwut: What kind of guy would complain if his girlfriend watched porn?
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(Original post by polaroid13)
:lolwut: What kind of guy would complain if his girlfriend watched porn?
I've met a few, gender stereotypes like that really don't function.
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I've met a few, gender stereotypes like that really don't function.
Oh. Dear.
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with porn. If there was, god wouldn't have created it. Why don't you watch it with him? It could do wonders for your sex life.

On another note, there should be a porn thread on here where people can post porn links. I've been watching porn since I was 9. Who remembers Live TV on cable back in day? Who here use to watch those 10 minute previews on Television X with the TV turned down while there mum was asleep? I know I did.
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I don't really think there is anything wrong with porn, but still, my bf is not allowed to watch it. On the other hand, we have had a very rough year, so probably, if I felt that everything was great between us, I wouldn't be as insecure and wouldn't have an issue with it. Maybe. Or maybe I am just a jealous *****, who knows.
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(Original post by Southwesttwo)
There's absolutely nothing wrong with porn. If there was, god wouldn't have created it. Why don't you watch it with him? It could do wonders for your sex life.

On another note, there should be a porn thread on here where people can post porn links. I've been watching porn since I was 9. Who remembers Live TV on cable back in day? Who here use to watch those 10 minute previews on Television X with the TV turned down while there mum was asleep? I know I did.
I can't tell if you're being serious or not.. TSR has young users on it and you've gotta be 18 to watch porn.. They can't regulate it.

And it's just stupid. - If you wanna watch porn, just google porn. It's not hard.
And if you're lazy.. http://tinyurl.com/8heu3o
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our sex life is great by the way , it just feels odd, like that episode of desperate housewives where susan goes to the strip club. i know there isn't any love in porn but it still upsets me a bit. do you thik its anything to do with the facty im in a long distance relationship. also some people have suggested watching it with him, im not sure how that would help? couold someone explain
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It's a debate that's entirely personal. I hate it with a vengance- i think it's derading and disgusting to the point I can't find it erotic. Watching other people have sex isn't something I at all find that normal in a relationship- it conjures up the imagine of a sad perv. I want my partner to respect me enough to only want to see MY naked body and I do the same for him.

You make your own decision how it makes you feel, and then your partner should respect and obey. Dont EVER let a guy convince you its normal or means nothing- I understand completely why people watch it- but at the end of the day its how it makes YOU feel. If you dont like it, and it makes you feel insecure/uncomfortable/jealous then your partner should stop. There have been divorces over porn- so no bloke can whinge.

I had this discussion with my partner years and ago and he disagreed at first like any bloke would. But very soon he understood my views and respected them. I expect every male out there to do the same.
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Porn can potentially ruin a relationship, of course it depends on the person, for some men it can lead to them developing a different view of women, over time men may see women as more of a sexual object and forget their true emotions.
Also the chances are you're boyfriend is going to need more 'porn like' sex, basically he will want you to f*ck him like a pornstar - and he will desire a pornstars body etc etc.
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It's a debate that's entirely personal. I hate it with a vengance- i think it's derading and disgusting to the point I can't find it erotic. Watching other people have sex isn't something I at all find that normal in a relationship- it conjures up the imagine of a sad perv. I want my partner to respect me enough to only want to see MY naked body and I do the same for him.

You make your own decision how it makes you feel, and then your partner should respect and obey. Dont EVER let a guy convince you its normal or means nothing- I understand completely why people watch it- but at the end of the day its how it makes YOU feel. If you dont like it, and it makes you feel insecure/uncomfortable/jealous then your partner should stop. There have been divorces over porn- so no bloke can whinge.

I had this discussion with my partner years and ago and he disagreed at first like any bloke would. But very soon he understood my views and respected them. I expect every male out there to do the same.
rofl, your bf is either hating you silently or lying. Probably lying. Anyway pr0n is more degrading to the man! They're just a few inches of meat, at least the woman gets some coverage.
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I would say its wrong, because if my boyfriend went out in real life to see sex, it would be sick. However, I don't have TOO much of a problem, as long as I dont see/hear about it.
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