Yes because one is active and the other is passive. One involves an emotional relationship the other is just a means to get off. Porn can never love you. Dont let anyone tell you otherwise.
Don't you ever fantasise (with or without porn) ?
I really really don't understand why girls get so hurt when their boyfriend's watch porn??
I don't think I'll ever get my head around this concept.
What exactly is he cheating on you with? His hand?!
No, leave him to his porn. It's better that he releases himself via watching porn than with another girl. And before someone says "Oh but he can release himself by having sex with his girlfriend" - sometimes you need a break, you need a bit of change etc.
Stop being so uptight.
If anything, I would join in with watching of porn (unless it's obvious he wants some alone time) and then make some of our own! (Well minus the camera).
Porn is healthy, that is my diagnosis.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with porn. If there was, god wouldn't have created it. Why don't you watch it with him? It could do wonders for your sex life.
On another note, there should be a porn thread on here where people can post porn links. I've been watching porn since I was 9. Who remembers Live TV on cable back in day? Who here use to watch those 10 minute previews on Television X with the TV turned down while there mum was asleep? I know I did.
I don't really think there is anything wrong with porn, but still, my bf is not allowed to watch it. On the other hand, we have had a very rough year, so probably, if I felt that everything was great between us, I wouldn't be as insecure and wouldn't have an issue with it. Maybe. Or maybe I am just a jealous *****, who knows.
our sex life is great by the way , it just feels odd, like that episode of desperate housewives where susan goes to the strip club. i know there isn't any love in porn but it still upsets me a bit. do you thik its anything to do with the facty im in a long distance relationship. also some people have suggested watching it with him, im not sure how that would help? couold someone explain
Porn can potentially ruin a relationship, of course it depends on the person, for some men it can lead to them developing a different view of women, over time men may see women as more of a sexual object and forget their true emotions.
Also the chances are you're boyfriend is going to need more 'porn like' sex, basically he will want you to f*ck him like a pornstar - and he will desire a pornstars body etc etc.
I would say its wrong, because if my boyfriend went out in real life to see sex, it would be sick. However, I don't have TOO much of a problem, as long as I dont see/hear about it.