Girlfriend or good friend?

So do I buy her flowers?

Marcus

(Chocolate would also work nicely!)

what was i saying about cliche! oh my god!

Haha, what can I say? It's the way to a girl's heart

Buy her a card, saying "To my girlfriend, on her birthday". If she says nothing, all is well. If she protests and says she's not your girlfriend, simply say that you were confused that day; for example, you'd already bought her a birthday card X months early.

I second that - just give the impression that you think she's your girlfriend.

If she protests, she's the one who looks like the fool for kissing you. Her kissing you is a stronger thing to do than you calling her your girlfriend. At any rate, she'll certainly have to explain it and you'll know where you stand.

If she says you're just friends, tell her exactly what you told us - that her behaviour is far from just-friends-like. Tell her you are not comfortable with being strung along if she doesn't even want a relationship with you.

Here's the story - I met a customer a few weeks ago where I work, first time I saw her and I asked her if she'd like to take my number, and she did. A bit later I get a text back saying it would be nice to have a kiss before the night ends. Wasn't expecting that so soon. Anyway, I was expecting more of a goodnight kiss sort of thing, rather than the more passionate kind, and I was sure my boss was going to come around and see. Texted me a lot all day at work Friday and on Saturday we went for a walk and a chat and ended up doing some more kissing.

She was on holiday in France with her parents for the past two weeks, but we didn't text a lot because of the expense. But the day after she came back, (which was this Saturday just gone) we went out to Lincoln, as she had some business to do, and we had a walk and talk, and then came back on the train. But before we got the train, her mum called her and asked her what time she would be back and if she was still with me, and why don't you invite him back for dinner, etc. I told her that I'd love to, but I'd be nervous as I hadn't known her for long and already I was meeting her parents. Then she said something I thought was odd and very confusing, bearing in mind the kissing, and also more so due to what happened after.

She said that it's not an official meet the parents thing because we were just good friends not boyfriend/girlfriend, which really threw me for a while. Do good friends kiss like that? Certainly not in my experience, and she wasn't drunk. On the train we were talking about things again, then just as we were pulling into our stop, she was suddenly looking at me funny, and she leaned over and kissed me again!

Had a nice evening and dinner with her family, got on really well, but had to leave early as I had work, and she walked me outside, and we kissed again, but not for long as I had work. I got a text the next day saying her parents liked me, and was really easy to talk to, which is a good thing, but she doesn't text me as much as she used to before she went to France.

We arranged to meet up again, but she had to cancel because her parents wanted some family time, but we're going out again tomorrow. Do I consider this as a date or as just friends meeting up? If the former, I'd like to get her some flowers before we go, as I really like this girl, and she seems to like me but I don't want to mess things up by reading the situation the wrong way.

What do you guys think?

Marcus

Yeah, I was going to ask her about that tomorrow, thought I'd better do it face-to-face than do it by text/MSN. However, she has said that she would like me to visit her when she's back at uni.

As for the birthday thing, well I know when that was. It was four days before we met, so a bit early to get her a card.

But everyone seems to think flowers are a bad idea. Thought all girls liked getting flowers?

Marcus