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how can i stop being so judgemental? watch

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    anon or delete please.

    OK so the problem is NO ONE ever meets my standards... and i know its ridiculous but whenever people show any interest in me i always find reasons why i don't like them.

    i think it all started from my upbringing, my parents are ALWAYS judging me (weight, looks etc) and comparing me to other people's daughters....

    right now, there is this girl who has pretty much told me in girl ways she likes me and i would say she is HAWT...but i can't bring myself to like her...i make up reasons as to why i don't like her (first i thought she was just going to use me, now i don't like her personality)...i know i haven't given her a chance but i can't.

    i really want to stop doing this, it's not healthy and pretty lonely lol....any advice please?
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    bump please

    I don't really know if there is a cure apart from time... you may mature with situations you encounter which will make you stop being so judgemental about girls... maybe if you got a really confidence knock to yourself it may make you seem to yourself more to their standards?
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