S/He's not that into you!?

Okay I was flicking through this book and thought - what a good topic for a thread! lol! You know all those times when you feel you've been given the run around and only after 6 days/weeks/months figured it out? Well, the idea struck me that instead of all the random 'ooh does s/he like me?' threads we could put them all together and give each other a hand to figure out just how much of an idiot in love we are being.

ideas:
1) you do all the inital texting- is he lazy, expects you to do it or just doesn't want to talk?
2) he only spends time with you when his mates are busy? (who can say whether or not their having an emotional breakdown?)
3) you find lots of texts from another girl on his phone? Just friends?

Here's hoping for mostly happy outcomes :smile:

Reply 1

black_mamba

14

4) use your common sense, ignore your heart listen to your brain.

End of. :wink:

Reply 2

r_raghav11

1

think calm and use ur head! :rolleyes:

Reply 3

DeLboY

NEVER read too much in to a glance

Reply 4

dpali

1

DeLboY

NEVER read too much in to a glance

*guilty*

Reply 5

DeLboY

dpali

*guilty*

Heh, me too.

All the time.

:redface:

Reply 6

ponjavic

1

Don't "sleep over" at other girls places. :doh:

Reply 7

saz_1989

2

ponjavic

Don't "sleep over" at other girls places. :doh:

My ex slept over in a girls' room... It was his best friend and he was talking to her about me but was rather drunk and fell asleep. So it doesn't always mean there's something going on...

Follow your heart. Listen to your friends.

Reply 8

Possession

1

Lauren

My ex slept over in a girls' room... It was his best friend and he was talking to her about me but was rather drunk and fell asleep. So it doesn't always mean there's something going on...

Follow your heart. Listen to your friends.

Sometimes you can't do that.

Your heart may be saying one thing whilst your friends are saying another.

Reply 9

DeLboY

I'd say don't always listen to your friends, peer pressure is a terrible thing. Follow your instincts.

It's better to know one way or the other, than to never find out.. There's no shame in rejection, only in refusing to try.

Reply 10

Ollie87

1

DeLboY

NEVER read too much in to a glance

I'm also guilty of that.

Reply 11

sarah1987

DeLboY

I'd say don't always listen to your friends, peer pressure is a terrible thing. Follow your instincts.

Hmm - I don't know. There's been times I've followed my heart and actually lied to my friends, thinking it was the best thing for me. But I always ended up upset and hurt by men. Thankfully my friends never deserted me! They always give honest and straightforward advice. Emotions can cloud your judgement and you need a friend to tell you the truth.

Reply 12

rachaelmarie

1

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

NEVER read too much in to a glance

or a conversation about marriage.

Reply 13

embelina

1

dont think you know someone really well just coz you send a lot of texts/emails to eachother....u cant express yourself fully thru these forms of communication, and, without meaning to, you can come across completely different...u have to meet up and talk in person to truly get to know someone

S/He's not that into you!?

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