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Why am I such an idiot? [love triangle banter]

Iv got myself in such a complete tiz over a couple of guys, n now i dont no wot 2 do. I went out wi one guy (no.1) for 5 months, n then we broke up but stayed friends, I then went out with two other guys, then starteds going out wi this other guy (no.2). I thought I had finally got over no.1 n was happy wi no.2, until no.1 decided to tell me he loved me. Considering the fact I had spent 8 months trying to get back with him, this was quite a major thing for him to say. I told him that I wanted 2 try and make things last with my current bf, n that if we did ever break up then I would consider going back out with him. Now every time I talk to him, he drops it into conversation that I "know his feelings for me".

This is where it starts to get complicated. Me and no.2 are having relationship problems and so I think we might be about to break up. I think no.1 knows this, and he wants us to get back together. However, I dont know if I do, as he is going off to university in a few weeks, as it no.2.

I currently have a huge dilemma, because no.1 wants me to meet him tomorrow, but I'm seeing no.2 on thurs to have "that talk"-the make or break one. I dont want seeing no.1 to cloud my views over no.2, so what should I do?
ok sweetie calm down firstly k :smile: - tell no.1 you cant meet up with him because of some sort of reason yeah? like you're going out with mates or whatever and arrange another time for you to meet up if you and no.2 do have the talk and it ends up in break up :hugs: for whatever ya do and good luck hunny xoxo
snuggerough
snuggerough is of the opinion that ur story is pathetic. Make a decision or lose both.


dont be mean!!!! - oh and Amy your not an idiot ok!!!! xoxo

Reply 3

thank you tammy girl, i jst cant think up a reason.

snuggerough, i no it does sound pretty pathetic, n i am tryin like crazy to make a decision

Reply 4

it sounds like you need a bit of time out a relationship to me x

Reply 5

c tammy girl, snuggerough wasn't being mean, just stating the obvious.

U have to make a choice. Two guys like u. Be happy and choose the best. what is the problem ?!

Christ

Reply 6

thats one of the reasons I dont wana get back wi no.1 cuz for last year i seem to have jst gone from one guy to the nxt, n i hate it!
amy88
thank you tammy girl, i jst cant think up a reason.

snuggerough, i no it does sound pretty pathetic, n i am tryin like crazy to make a decision


make up an excuse just like you gotta go into town or somethin with your mammy or you gotta go to the dentist for a check up etc....or if its evening time say you gotta babysit a family member or you remembered you made plans to hang out with your mates that evening etc ^_^ xoxo

Reply 8

are you going to uni?

Reply 9

the goin out wi my mum sounds jst about the most plausable, cuz he nos i was wi my mates yesterday and 2day, n i dont c em that much lol

Reply 10

Yeah, but im livin at home in sheffield-no1s goin to liverpool, n no2s goin 2 bath

Reply 11

dont bother with either of them! the chances of it working are slim! and u sound like u need some time to figure out what you want
amy88
the goin out wi my mum sounds jst about the most plausable, cuz he nos i was wi my mates yesterday and 2day, n i dont c em that much lol


well there ya go :wink: excuse made :p: xoxo

Reply 13

I dont think i do want either of em as bfs, but both are really good friends 2 me n i dont wana lose that

Reply 14

then tell them that

Reply 15

Il try, no1 dont seem 2 take a hint, n im still technically goin out wi no2

Reply 16

mayb by thurs, wont b goin out wi no2 nemore, cuz jst talked 2 him on msn 2 arrange what were doin, were goin 2 a coffee shop n "talkin"-that is so not good. Also, he dint put any kisses when he sed bye, and he always gives me kisses :'(

Reply 17

amy88
mayb by thurs, wont b goin out wi no2 nemore, cuz jst talked 2 him on msn 2 arrange what were doin, were goin 2 a coffee shop n "talkin"-that is so not good. Also, he dint put any kisses when he sed bye, and he always gives me kisses :'(

nononononoononononono NO!

No text speak on here thankyou!