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Relationship Doubts

saz_1989

2

Anyone else get them every so often? Even when you're with someone you love?

Reply 1

Fleece

15

yup. when things get tough.

Reply 2

Drogue

19

Yep. Usually when I see some annoyingly gorgeous girl and realise Gemski's a few hundred miles away. But it passes :smile:

Reply 3

Glory

1

yeh, i find i like a guy but i have doubts and dont know if i love them. I dont end up in a relationship for long, because if you dont love them then surely there isnt a relationship or a future to it.

Reply 4

ciara

13

I used to in previous relationships; I'm quite an indecisive, unsure person and I generally overanalyse. I'm finding now though that I'm totally in love and nothing can really make me doubt that - maybe I've just grown up a bit, or maybe I've found the right person for me..? I don't know!

Cxx

Reply 5

Kura1984

2

Yes, definately. I do sometimes thing that our actual relationship doesn't weigh up the ideal that I've always had in my head. But this passes because I wouldn't want to introduce the idea and then manifest it into a problem that just isn't there/isn't so bad.

It takes a great deal more effort to keep relationships together than I ever thought before I actually had one.

Reply 6

dave

Kura1984

It takes a great deal more effort to keep relationships together than I ever thought before I actually had one.

That is oh so true. The problem materialises, though, when ONE of the partners stops trying and starts taking the relationship for granted.

Reply 7

Billistic

1

Yup! When the beautiful girl I'm seeing has absolutely no common sense.

She is as sweet as can be, lovely, funny, beautiful and means well but it infuriates me when I have to explain the simplest stuff. Oh well. Off to uni soon.

Reply 8

snuggerough

yes, the girl is beautiful. A model even. she is clever and witty. She has a wondeful smile and is self sufficient. she is everything snuggerough has ever dreamed of.
But she can't quite understand some simple things. she has to go !

curse this world, for being so cruel. Why.... oh why ?

Reply 9

Billistic

1

snuggerough

yes, the girl is beautiful. A model even. she is clever and witty. She has a wondeful smile and is self sufficient. she is everything snuggerough has ever dreamed of.
But she can't quite understand some simple things. she has to go !

curse this world, for being so cruel. Why.... oh why ?

I feel you totally.

Reply 10

saz_1989

OP

2

At least I don't feel alone now. It's really random things. Like I found out the boy was casually seeing someone just before we got together, and it's like "what? you told me you weren't". Silly lies like that. I guess I thought he was near perfect and he's not.

Reply 11

dave

Lauren

At least I don't feel alone now. It's really random things. Like I found out the boy was casually seeing someone just before we got together, and it's like "what? you told me you weren't". Silly lies like that. I guess I thought he was near perfect and he's not.

Deception kills any relationship before it even starts. I found out the truth about the girl I loved - rather too late - but that's another story.

@ Billistic - I read your story in the other thread - I feel for you.

Reply 12

Billistic

1

bodhisattva

@ Billistic - I read your story in the other thread - I feel for you.

Props man. Appreciated.

Reply 13

daniel_williams

15

Lauren

Anyone else get them every so often? Even when you're with someone you love?

i don't tend to get doubts, but its the fact i have a very beautiful gf and i am just worried about losing her, she could have so many people and she chose someone like me!

Reply 14

Mike_Davies

Yeah get them every now and then I suppose we all get them at some point.

Reply 15

dave

daniel_williams

i don't tend to get doubts, but its the fact i have a very beautiful gf and i am just worried about losing her, she could have so many people and she chose someone like me!

If you don't have occasional doubts - you risk becoming complacent - which leads to taking your partner for granted - the death-knell for so many relationships.
Laugh if you want - but introduce her to something different. Send her some flowers (unannounced) - book a candlelit dinner - you know - that old fashioned thing called ROMANCE. :wink:

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