Quick question for all the girls

This is a question about what standards and boundaries you have towards men in a romantic context.

If you had just started seeing a bloke, say the first time you got together, and he didn't text or call you afterwards for two days at all would you care? Would you be annoyed and tell him? Would you carry on like nothing happened? If not, why?

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Reply 1

HARRY PUTAH

I bet you haven't called her.

10 bucks.

Reply 2

Jingely

For a girl, I have quite a bit of an ego.. So I'd act like I don't care but in my mind (say if I really do like the guy) I actually am checking my phone.. quite frequently? haha :tongue:

hush hush

But ya. I mean.. 2 days isn't too bad. It's about balance I guess. If you fancy the person, you don't exactly disappear off, nor constantly text every minute. Though.. it's a two-way street so you can expect her to text/call you too.

Reply 3

YellowDucksOnBlueSocks

the lil' lady giving you bother?

Reply 4

Bad A$$

YellowDucksOnBlueSocks

the lil' lady giving you bother?

Er, I'm a girl. :cool:

Reply 5

YellowDucksOnBlueSocks

Bad A$$

Er, I'm a girl. :cool:

Indeed.

Just seemed like a male-talking-out-of-own-arse kinda question.

..and i'm out..

Reply 6

psychotic

I'd move on.

Reply 7

xoxoluv

I would act like I don't care but in reality do.

Reply 8

YL_LDN

don't think about it . Just do what you want kiddo.

Reply 9

Antifazian

Ham22

if you mean first time sex and no call for two days, i'd be insulted and pissed, yes. quite rude.

This.

Reply 10

Lexi99

Why dont you call him?

Reply 11

Bad A$$

Lexi99

Why dont you call him?

Because it's up to the guy to do that?

What if you didn't have full sex, but were intimate in other ways would it affaect how you felt?

Reply 12

Lexi99

Bad A$$

Because it's up to the guy to do that?

What if you didn't have full sex, but were intimate in other ways would it affaect how you felt?

How is it? Whats wrong with the girl making the effort for a change?

One of two things is happening here. Either he doesnt give a ****, or he's worrying just as much as you are and not wanting to call too early so he doesnt seem too needy.

If you wanna know, get it over and done with and call him.

Reply 13

kaying

depends, really.
personally, i don't think i would because if that person wasn't someone i spoke to on a daily basis then it'd be normal not to have a call straight away. it doesn't matter if they talk to you the next day either.. but it would be nice depending on the people + relationship.

Reply 14

shessolovely

I would be pissed.

He doesn't sound like one of the "good guys" OP.

Not a keeper. :no:

Reply 15

Bad A$$

shessolovely

I would be pissed.

He doesn't sound like one of the "good guys" OP.

Not a keeper. :no:

That's my first instinct and that's what I went with. I think he should have called me or texted me to say he had a nice time, but he didn't. Why? Because he was the one enjoying my company.

Reply 16

T-go

so long as he called at some point, i wouldn't care at all really.

Reply 17

shessolovely

Bad A$$

That's my first instinct and that's what I went with. I think he should have called me or texted me to say he had a nice time, but he didn't. Why? Because he was the one enjoying my company.

Oh. Sorry hun, unfortunately some guys are just pricks like that.

I wouldn't dwell on it too much but i know it's easier said than done.

But he is not worth your time if he think it's okay to do this.

Chances are he will ring he in the near future but don't decide to meet up with him. I have seen this happen to many times, the guy just using the girl whenever he wants and the girl thinking it will eventually lead into something more serious.

There are too many good guys out there to waist your time on the idiotic ones.

:smile:

Reply 18

TwirlGirl

Bad A$$

That's my first instinct and that's what I went with. I think he should have called me or texted me to say he had a nice time, but he didn't. Why? Because he was the one enjoying my company.

I still dont see why you couldn't have texted him. After all, you were the one enjoying his company. :rolleyes:

Reply 19

Real Talk

Its only been 2 days the **** are you women talking

:/

5 days then its a problem tbh if he does call soon then just make sure you don't become a booty call if that ain't what you want chill for a bit maybe some time not talking is good you sound like you've caught feelings already.