I hate my life and I don't know what to do

thanks

If only I knew who you are.....

Hmm...

Does it matter? I'm female if that helps
Thanks for replying..

i deal with ********* taking advantage of my 'mild' nature by sprinkling life with occassional explosions of rage. people get to know that i will not take their ****, so they better watch the **** out. i suggest you adopt this tactic too.

It's ok to be pissed off and hate everybody, confidence comes when you do something decent for yourself, e.g. buy a new dress or having your hair styled, this will give you a new sense of confidence.

As for the Uni degree, you are too far in now to quit. In a few years you might look back and think "I'm so glad I didn't quit" because it may open new doors for you in the future.

As for friends, I am sure you have hobbies so why not mingle with people in Uni who have similar interests, go to societies dedicated to your hobbies. As for people like your "friend" the best approach is to leave them be, I highly doubt they will achieve anything in their lives by "pulling faces" it is just childish and a lot of people don't like it.

I will be your friend [God help you] if you want.

Nope it doesn't matter at all.

I think you should forget about that girl your talking about and find some new friends who really appriciate you for who you are. You should go out more and maybe join some Societies in Uni to meet new people, it would also bring your confidence up a bit

Aww thank you I am a lot worse with confidence around really loud and intimidating people....I lose the ability to speak and end up making a fool of myself. And I am too afraid to stand up to my friend as we have to work in a team together for the next year or so.... Thank for your advice.

Something that always builds confidence is being good at something, something that makes you stand out a little. In the beginning it doesn't even have to be something that others have to know about, learn to play a musical instrument or take up a sport. If nothing else it may take away your time to think about being upset/depressed.

That is exactly how I feel most of the time....

I feel so angry at myself afterwards for not standing up to myself but I genuinely don't know how to and I am afraid of her reaction. I hate arguing with people and like to keep the peace. But she is a bitch. Why is she being mean when I have done nothing but be nice? I really don't get some people. Thanks so much for your reply

That is the problem, I am rubbish at everything. I often dream that I could sing or dance, be good at sport, be a whizz kid at computers, be a great public speaker but I am literally NONE of those things.

It's ok what else could I do at 1.50 in the morning lol. Back to the point though, to stand up for yourself isn't hard. If a person says something to insult you e.g. " nice hair... not" the majority of the time they are jealous, a major cause of hate is jealousy.

I am pretty independent, I like to do things my way and don't give a **** what others think. If I am in town and I want to go home and my friends are like " you can't leave, how are we going to get home?" the best thing to do is just say " you got here all right, now you can make your way home the same way you got here". I admire you like to be peaceful but in life you need to be strong otherwise people will just take the urine, honestly if this girl/boy is horrible to you then why bother you would be better off without him/her.