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How long is long enough?

Ok so I had been goin out with this guy for 3 years and we split up a month ago, it had been comming for a while and it was fairly amicable but ive met up with and old friend from college who i really fanyed then, i think i have feelings for him but is this just the re bound and should i take things further or is it too soon

Reply 1

Amzybaby24

whatever you feel go for it, jsut ttake it slow and don't rush into things if you don't want to!

Reply 2

gagol

yeah but will he wonder the same things as me as he knew me b4 and he knew my bf too?

Reply 3

Amzybaby24

only you knwo who you feel, no-one else can tell you that! if you feel it's too soon don't take it furtha as it will probably only be a rebound... if you feel it won't be then good luck!

TALK TO HIM?

Reply 4

cherryade

why not just take it slow at first? i know from past experience that after a break up its better to have a couple of weeks to get used to being single again. u cld use the time to get to know the guy better as a friend and see how things go from there. good luck! :smile:

Reply 5

ciara

Heehee I thought this was about something completely different :biggrin:

ah so immature.

Anyway.. Maybe develop your friendship with this guy before going further? It seems kinda like a rebound thing because 3 years is ages and i'm assuming you were totally in love to be together that long, so you might take ages to get over him? But then again, if the break up was coming for a while and you already really fancied this guy then maybe not. Only you can know.

I think if you're having doubts there's no harm in waiting a while. It will save people getting hurt (in particular your ex) and help you clarify your feelings. Don't rush into anything.

Cxx