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    (Original post by anightowl)
    Imagine if he really was suicidal and was reading this? :rolleyes:

    Seriously, he isn't suicidal. Get him out of your life, ASAP, and BE HAPPY. NOW.
    High-five Nightowl!
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    aww u guys r real sweet, thanks
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    (Original post by technik)
    its not your concern. ignore him
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    (Original post by anightowl)
    Call me ignorant, but I don't think he is serious about suicide, he sounds like he's just trying to guilt you into going out with him. If he didn't want to bother you anymore, he could just stay away, embarassment perhaps? Just say no, try and stay away from him as much as possible. Failing, say you are a lesbian.
    lol, I agree with that.

    Or maybe buy him a prostitute, jeez.
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    This guy doesn't love you. If he DID love you and had two brains cells to copulate with each other AND was 'all there' he certainly wouldn't be putting this guilt trip on you.

    He's deluded and he's obsessed. I don't think he even knows what love is all about.

    I'm not entirely sure you can help him at this very point in time. It doesn't sound like he is quite the listener...
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    The best thing you can do for this guy is too completely ignore him and avoid having any contact with him, you have done what you can for him, now it's time for him to deal with his own problems, if you are that concerned about him hurting himself either talk to his parents or someone close to him to keep an eye on him.
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    what a creep! lucky u didn't say yeah! he wont do it, he's a coward or he wuda dun it already! b*stard! tell him that you want to be his friend and that maybe someday you may be together if it's meant to be.. it'll calm him down then say but he needs to cool down and behave like a friend again, change your mobile num but keep your old one and gradually fade away......
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    Without meaning to sound harsh at all...
    My ex has a LOT of mental problems... so i know a fair bit about suicide
    And if he was serious then he would do it
    A lot of people feel like they;re so low they'd like to
    But when he reaches the point that he will... he won't be telling you about it
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    (Original post by Bekaboo)
    Without meaning to sound harsh at all...
    My ex has a LOT of mental problems... so i know a fair bit about suicide
    And if he was serious then he would do it
    A lot of people feel like they;re so low they'd like to
    But when he reaches the point that he will... he won't be telling you about it
    i know what you mean, my ex always threatened to then he went quiet and did some messed up sh*t... still didnt do it tho in the end
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    Some FACTS Here For You!

    1. People who make it known they want to kill themselves are just ATTENTION SEEKERS.
    2. Truly suicidal people are already dead; they are determined and do not tell anyone because they know they would interfere. They often don't even ACT as if they are in such a desperate state of mind.

    Now please no more said about this. I think every teenager (usually a girl!) has said they'll kill themselves. My ex gf said it and my sister said it, unfortunately they're both still here XD

    You're welcome!
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    he's tryin to emotionally blackmail you - ignore it. get him out of your life he is a BAD person!
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    no-one should hold you to ransom, ignore him
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    (Original post by -TMG-)
    Some FACTS Here For You!

    1. People who make it known they want to kill themselves are just ATTENTION SEEKERS.
    2. Truly suicidal people are already dead; they are determined and do not tell anyone because they know they would interfere. They often don't even ACT as if they are in such a desperate state of mind.

    Now please no more said about this. I think every teenager (usually a girl!) has said they'll kill themselves. My ex gf said it and my sister said it, unfortunately they're both still here XD

    You're welcome!

    Absolutely correct, I 100% agree.
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    (Original post by john171)
    Absolutely correct, I 100% agree.
    I agree as well, he would already have carried out the threat- by the sound of it he is weak
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    (Original post by john171)
    Apologies, I didnt read everything you said Sarky. You're agreeing with me
    Erm no i think you'll find you're agreeing with me since i posted first but no matter :p:
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    (Original post by Kura1984)
    May I interest you all in a joke made in very bad taste?

    This may be deleted, since this is a serious disussion and all. Or maybe it should be deleted before the idiot decides he's 'really' going to kill himself with a fiver's worth of Netto's baked beans (see link...)

    It's from the Maddox site:

    How to kill yourself like a man
    That sites brilliant!
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    Try to avoid him. If he pesters you tell him your parents wont let you date anyone at the moment, 'I prefer girls", "I am not attracted to humans in anyway", "I would rather be friends for a while longer", "I have a boyfriend", "I have to concentrate on study"
    I think ignoring him is the best thing. If you don't have any contact with him, he will probably go away.
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    (Original post by -TMG-)
    Some FACTS Here For You!

    1. People who make it known they want to kill themselves are just ATTENTION SEEKERS.
    2. Truly suicidal people are already dead; they are determined and do not tell anyone because they know they would interfere. They often don't even ACT as if they are in such a desperate state of mind.

    Now please no more said about this. I think every teenager (usually a girl!) has said they'll kill themselves. My ex gf said it and my sister said it, unfortunately they're both still here XD

    You're welcome!
    I don't think it's fair to say people who say they'll commit suicide is "attention seekers" - I see the fact that they make it known as a cry for help, who doesn't really wanna die but see no way out.

    That's not saying that's the case with this psycho guy the OP is on about though! Difficult situation But yeh, if they make it known, they probably won't do it. Just as I didn't when I said I wanted to die - but I needed someone to talk to. I think if my friends weren't there to listen I really would've died.

    But yeh I gotta agree with the general posts here - stay away from this guy.
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    [QUOTE=irisng]I don't think it's fair to say people who say they'll commit suicide is "attention seekers" - I see the fact that they make it known as a cry for help[QUOTE]

    cry for help = attention seeking

    no difference

    this guy's clearly a moron - rather than try and make excuses like you'll find someone better (he's thinking he can't), you don't deserve him (he thinks you do), etc. just tell him if he really cares about you then he wouldn't be giving you all this worry

    if that doesn't work, then he clearly doesn't give a toss how you feel, so why should you care how he feels
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    It's the quiet ones that usually have the genuine suicidal tendency.
 
 
 
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