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    cool xx
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    Oh god, no don't. You'll put us all off! :p: I wouldn't think it would be something I'd want to do at the moment, but it doesn't disgust me or anything. Never say never and all of that. But, I think if the guy is just after a bit of a power trip, couldn't he just take her from behind, and not necessarily get in her behind?!

    Well, as they say: When the red river flows, take the dirt road...

    (Ahem, sorry for that!)
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    (Original post by pikaboo)
    Was it you who told us about the sweetcorn story? Eeeek, that really got me worried, but it still didn't stop me from taking it :p:
    no, not me, but i did hear a story from my mate's brother about a time when he was partaking in anal pleasure with a girl he'd pulled at some club...anyway they were at it when all of a sudden she...erm...carried out the function usually associated with the anal cavity.

    He kicked her out of his room, which i thought was rather silly as it meant he had to clean up himself.

    Which, i suppose, begs the question...how 'clear' must the passage be? emptied a few hours before hand? few minutes? *mods this is a serious question and not intended as a silly or crude comment. i am genuinely interested and seeking advice *
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    Euuuw!
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    (Original post by zhivago)
    Euuuw!
    i know . sometimes the fear of what could go wrong is just more overpowering than the curiosity of whether it's any good!
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    (Original post by grace)
    no, not me, but i did hear a story from my mate's brother about a time when he was partaking in anal pleasure with a girl he'd pulled at some club...anyway they were at it when all of a sudden she...erm...carried out the function usually associated with the anal cavity.

    He kicked her out of his room, which i thought was rather silly as it meant he had to clean up himself.

    Which, i suppose, begs the question...how 'clear' must the passage be? emptied a few hours before hand? few minutes? *mods this is a serious question and not intended as a silly or crude comment. i am genuinely interested and seeking advice *
    :rofl: I think the same day will do, I think one can usually tell if they've got the all-clear. If your tummy feels at all dodgy then don't risk it :eek:
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    No mention of lube, cleansing and the spooning position? :eek:
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    :vroam:....spooning? do explain
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    Oh yeah, doggy is one of the worst positions to start with, spooning is much gentler.
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    Just imagine two spoons in a drawer, like in the 'PP' position.

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    (Original post by drawmeamonkey)
    i think some guys are obsessed with it because its in so much porn!

    i think it would be a bit demeaning for the girl, maybe a power trip for some guys?

    i don't wanna do it, seems just wrong to me, as someone said its meant for pushing things out :rolleyes:
    You're the first person in the thread to actually pin-point the reason why most guys want to do it:

    1) It's quite degrading/nasty: it doesn't mean necessarily that a guy has no respect for a girl if he wants to do that. In that case, any couple who were into S&M wouldn't be able to be in love. It's one of the things you can claim you've accomplished. If you know that a girl has never done it, and you manage to, you've got something over all the other guys....

    2) It's taboo: anything excessively naughty is exciting for a lot of people and this can be the main reason why a girl wants to try it.

    3) It feels different: it doesn't feel that great. The physical part of it really isn't why guys ask for it so much. It's the excuse to use to convince your girlfriend. You're hardly going to tell your gf "I want to try it so I can tell myself you're a slut".
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    (Original post by grace)
    no, not me, but i did hear a story from my mate's brother about a time when he was partaking in anal pleasure with a girl he'd pulled at some club
    What kind of girl would engage in anal sex with a guy she pulled in a club? One-night stands are already difficult for a girl to enjoy and orgasm from so not sure why she'd be doing anal sex.
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    lol its true :toofunny: :toofunny:
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    Slightly OT but wasn't anal sex very popular in Ancient Rome? It was thought of as preserving virginity in girls before marriage etc.
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    (Original post by Pav27)
    Slightly OT but wasn't anal sex very popular in Ancient Rome? It was thought of as preserving virginity in girls before marriage etc.
    It was popular because homosexual sex was popular, same among the ancient greeks. The idea that it preserves virginity is alive today: a lot of western European guys who go to Turkey and pull a turkish girl sometimes get offered that, so the girl can keep her virginity for marriage.

    (Original post by grace)
    i know . sometimes the fear of what could go wrong is just more overpowering than the curiosity of whether it's any good!
    If you're with a guy who cares about you and you're in a good relationship, such mishaps are a non-issue. The guy knows what comes out of there normally! Even if it did go wrong (it has for me), so what? Something like that with someone you care a lot about and you're really close to, doesn't matter. It only matters when the relationship is a bit superficial.


    And yes, it's rather worrying the lack of mentioning of lube: without lube just don't bother.
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    I was just about to say about the virginity issue in a lot of countries around the wrold today..but I won't now..I'll move on
    Apart from the consent,lube,feeling as though you can stop if you don't want it surely another key point is to wear protection?? I was always taught that due to the fact that we aren't designed to have sex that way (not correct phrasing but go with me) the tissue will tear more easily thus leaving us more susceptable (sp?) to STI's such as HIV so go with the good ol' ozzie saying of " if it's not on, it's not on".......
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    (Original post by KyonoRocks)
    My girlfriend and I are in a loving relationship with a great sex life yet we both want to try Anal. I do wanna try it for the obvious reason (Curiosity, not because I want to call my girlfriend a slut!) and same with my girlfriend. She wants to please me and I want to please her, we're both willing to try anything the other person asks (and we don't ask ludicrous things) and that's a healthy relationship IMO. She does it out of curiosity too, it's a two way thing.
    I was explaining why guys get excited about it. You haven't mentioned why you're excited about it and when it comes to sex, you might as well be honest about it instead of hiding behind false excuses to make yourself seem like a nice guy.
    Curiosity? Curiosity about what? About the whole taboo thing quite often. Anyhow, curiosity and excitement are different things. But it's a famous fact that guys come up with all kinds of excuses to convince their girlfriend to try it.
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    always use a condom and lube - the ass doesnt have be like cleared just before or anything - as someone said the same day will do - if you do have somehting brewing then u will feel weirder than normal anal when somehting goes up there so just stop. when i say weirder than normal i mean it will feel a lot more intense.

    it can be very pleasurable for both people! personally i found doggy less difficult than spoons but i guess different people...

    being a gayer i do it regularly and it rocks my socks
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    (Original post by FlyingIsis)
    Id rather not...
    guys do seem quite obsessed with it though....why is that?
    sounds rather disgusting.... are you sure they're obsessed with it and not something else?
 
 
 
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