friend whose a playa

Well basically one of my best mates is in simple terms a playa. She plays boys around - she went away and got off with this guy, and she syas she "loves" him - which i cant see ebing true, then she'l be flirting with all the other guys she knows, and then theres this other guy who really likes her, and will most probz make a move on her, and well she will go with the flow, and not resist. I can't stand watching her play boys around and she know's what shes doing aswell which makes things worse, do ya think i should just let her get on with it or what??

Reply 1

grace

well, if you care about the boys she's hurting, then talk to them or her about it. if not, it's not really your business unless it affects your friend in a negative way. she's probably just having fun, admittedly in an immature and unfufilling kind of way, but as long as it doesn't affect you or anyone you care about i think you should let her be. Maybe tell her your opinion on the matter but realistically there's not a lot else you can or should be doing.

Reply 2

rainy_skye

so basically its none of my business lol!! yea i get what ya mean :smile:

Reply 3

IjustlovetheIB

I don't think you can do much about it. I mean, you can talk to her and tell her you don't agree with what she's doing. You could try to make her understand that she might be hurting some people's feelings and stuff. But afterall, it's her life!