3 Guys

My advice is to stop drinking and start acting like a civilized person. Pulling random guys and leading them on sucks balls

Thank you - i totally agree with what you've said. Gah but the last time i saw Harry (apart from last week) was last Easter!!! whos knows when i'll see him again *sob*

Hell no after the last time i saw him (easter) i liked him just as much as i do know apart from then he didnt kiss me, so now i really really like him. I have no idea where he lives. I do know what school he goes to and i know there are people on tsr who go to his school - but i can't ask that'll be way to embarressing like in a weird cyber stalker way!

My advice is to stop drinking and start acting like a civilized person. Pulling random guys and leading them on sucks balls

This is probably going to be long and very boring but hey.

3 guys - lets call them Tom Dick and Harry.

I fancied Tom alot, thought i had no chance so kinda tried to forget about him. Then stupidly pulled him best friend Dick in front of him. Tom got really upset and so did Dick when he found out i liked Tom. This was all before the summer.

Fast forward to now - i had completly forgot about Tom and Dick. Then i go to a party and pull Tom. Now he is so clingy i have missed calls on my phone, pointless texts etc. Then last week i went to this club was absolutly pissed and extremely horney. Tom obviously goes to chat me up and instead we start pulling alot. So now Tom likes me again and i feel terrible for leading him on.

Anyway i had my eye on Harry the whole of that night. I've only met him 3 times clubbing but we just can sit and talk for hours, we just click but we have only been friends to eachother. I was flirting with his friend and i could see him staring at me in the corner of my eye - such a turn on. Harry then came over to talk to me and thats just what we did.

But then Harry we going to leave so i went to say bye and gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek and then he kissed me on the lips (it wasn't a pull it was better, really romantic) And that just blew me away it was like it was just me and him in this crowded club.

I obviously forgot to get him number but oh god i just can't stop thinking about him, he just seems so perfect.

So i don't really know why i'm typing this - i think i'm just trying to clear my head.

I want to tell Tom that i don't like him - but to be blunt i like having him there went no other guys are around (mean i know). But Harry hes perfect - gorgous funny - hes the only thing on my mind.

sounds like you've already made your decision- harry's the one for you with tom- you've just got to let him down gently, it sounds like he's really into you, so be kind and understanding. also be sure that harry wants you, if not- this will sound awful but don't dump tom. see how it goes, because this could be an infactuation, whereas tom could be long-term- if you know what i mean good luck

Sorry another thing i don't think i'm being insecure about being single - i think its the opposite.

I've always been single and have never had a boyfriend, i think i'm just way to scared to commit, and now that Tom is really falling for me i back away. I now its stupid but i would perhaps reconsider at go back with Tom, but now that Harrys come along tbh i'm head over heals.