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i hate lies, im all shapes and forms. call me whatever u want but i have issues with any lies how big or small.

about 10mins ago i met my boyf for our 20min break and in 10mins he lied to me three times bout porn. (helaughs wen he lies ion a certain way)

1st he said hasnt look at porn since we bin 2geva
2nd he sez ok he saw his mates phone porn and some at home (coz his m8 was droppin him in it)
3rd he said he only saw a little pik, which then changed to the fact he watched a cxlip (he says 3 seconds long of a dancer girl but not below the waist hahaha! yeh right)
i said so how many mor u seen then? he said none which changed to 3.
when i asked over and over other times hes watched it he did the thing he does when he lies and says he aint.

he then had to go and carried on denyinit.nows hes texted me saying he hasnt been lying to me(but 3 or 4 times?!?!?!) and that he isnt now.

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well, to be very frank and no offence, i have seen a lot of brt guys cheating over their gf's.........and sometimes even gals do so.
So, i must suggest that u shuld play along !!!
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well, to be very frank and no offence, i have seen a lot of brt guys cheating over their gf's.........and sometimes even gals do so.
So, i must suggest that u shuld play along !!!
play alongwith what? i have an issue with cheatin and lies. he swears he always tells me the truth RUBBISH!!!!

iv had enuf of it. i wana end it coz of the lyin but evrythin else i luv him
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well, to be very frank and no offence, i have seen a lot of brt guys cheating over their gf's.........and sometimes even gals do so.
So, i must suggest that u shuld play along !!!
porn a form of cheatin then?
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porn a form of cheatin then?
well i must tell u that porn parts a very micro part of cheating !!!
What is a much bigger issue is the fact that he lies to u about any and everything, whereas u probably confide in him......this is very unfair. If i wuld have had a g/f, i wuld never had done this....and i mean it !!!
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play alongwith what? i have an issue with cheatin and lies. he swears he always tells me the truth RUBBISH!!!!

iv had enuf of it. i wana end it coz of the lyin but evrythin else i luv him
well, i can only suggest one thing....leave him.
Its not that i want u to leave him for my own amusement or for some personal reasons...but because of the fact that the guys who cannot tell the truth cannot be trusted and shuld not have a relationship..
This may sound harsh....but probably he has been sleeping with someone and is not telling u !!!
Anyway, i wuld never do that to my gf as its very much unethical !!!

Well probably, u deserve a lot more than u r getting now.
Also, all men are no the same.......................
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I cheat on other girls all the times and its great fun
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I cheat on other girls all the times and its great fun
u make my point clear.....thanx
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u make my point clear.....thanx
just a pathetic attitude
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just a pathetic attitude
well maybe it is.....but this is the psyche of most of the ppl, and my friends i know !!!

One of my mate, even though he had a gf, got laid in the christas holidays 3 different times !!!!!!!!

This is what my opinion is based on.......
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just a pathetic attitude
mate i know where your coming from, i found some porno mags under my blokes bed and all the pages where ripped on it,as you can imagine i was upset and confronted him about it and he told me that he never bought them,i knew he was lieing cos hes mentioned about porno films to me before and i knew he had them but never seen them!

I said i think its disgusting and that it makes me feel unattractive and useless in bed for him to have to revert to porno mags!

He then continued to lie and said his mate bought em when him and his mates went to london, and then which i later found out he'd been in the strip clubs in Soho(found out from his mates).. I was Gutted
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mate i know where your coming from, i found some porno mags under my blokes bed and all the pages where ripped on it,as you can imagine i was upset and confronted him about it and he told me that he never bought them,i knew he was lieing cos hes mentioned about porno films to me before and i knew he had them but never seen them!

I said i think its disgusting and that it makes me feel unattractive and useless in bed for him to have to revert to porno mags!

He then continued to lie and said his mate bought em when him and his mates went to london, and then which i later found out he'd been in the strip clubs in Soho(found out from his mates).. I was Gutted

well see, this was what i was talking about. This is like a stigmata....present everywhere, but mo one is ready to accept it !!!
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mate i know where your coming from, i found some porno mags under my blokes bed and all the pages where ripped on it,as you can imagine i was upset and confronted him about it and he told me that he never bought them,i knew he was lieing cos hes mentioned about porno films to me before and i knew he had them but never seen them!

I said i think its disgusting and that it makes me feel unattractive and useless in bed for him to have to revert to porno mags!

He then continued to lie and said his mate bought em when him and his mates went to london, and then which i later found out he'd been in the strip clubs in Soho(found out from his mates).. I was Gutted
i found some on his pc a couple of months ago in the recycle bin and he said he dont no how it got there?!?! what?

its horriable isnt it? i kinda feel im not good enough
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i found some on his pc a couple of months ago in the recycle bin and he said he dont no how it got there?!?! what?

its horriable isnt it? i kinda feel im not good enough
why do'nt u try to understand his psyche.......u r damn goood .......put this in ur head !!! HE IS NOT!!! He does not respect u and ur individuality,and its u who deserves everything......do not put urself down !!! PLEASE
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i found some on his pc a couple of months ago in the recycle bin and he said he dont no how it got there?!?! what?

its horriable isnt it? i kinda feel im not good enough
thats exactly how i feel, men are such w******s! why cant they just be honest and say yer ok im enjoy looking at porno but it has nothing to do with you..blah blah!blah! or say i looked at a couple of porno mags out of curiosity and decided they where no good and i wont look at em again and bin em!! (if only that part would come true) i bet most men would prefer their women to look like porno models just so they dont have to search through the mags
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thats exactly how i feel, men are such w******s! why cant they just be honest and say yer ok im enjoy looking at porno but it has nothing to do with you..blah blah!blah! or say i looked at a couple of porno mags out of curiosity and decided they where no good and i wont look at em again and bin em!! (if only that part would come true) i bet most men would prefer their women to look like porno models just so they dont have to search through the mags
i wud so much prefer it if he just said to me 2day, yeh i did look, im tellin u coz i dont wana keep it form u....

i wud have bin so much happier, i wudnt even b fallin out with him! its the lies that get to me the most tho
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thats exactly how i feel, men are such w******s! why cant they just be honest and say yer ok im enjoy looking at porno but it has nothing to do with you..blah blah!blah! or say i looked at a couple of porno mags out of curiosity and decided they where no good and i wont look at em again and bin em!! (if only that part would come true) i bet most men would prefer their women to look like porno models just so they dont have to search through the mags
well believe me not all men !!!
I have never had a look at porno site all my life.....if there is a pop up, its a different issue !!!
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(Original post by lumpycustard)
i hate lies, im all shapes and forms. call me whatever u want but i have issues with any lies how big or small.

about 10mins ago i met my boyf for our 20min break and in 10mins he lied to me three times bout porn. (helaughs wen he lies ion a certain way)

1st he said hasnt look at porn since we bin 2geva
2nd he sez ok he saw his mates phone porn and some at home (coz his m8 was droppin him in it)
3rd he said he only saw a little pik, which then changed to the fact he watched a cxlip (he says 3 seconds long of a dancer girl but not below the waist hahaha! yeh right)
i said so how many mor u seen then? he said none which changed to 3.
when i asked over and over other times hes watched it he did the thing he does when he lies and says he aint.

he then had to go and carried on denyinit.nows hes texted me saying he hasnt been lying to me(but 3 or 4 times?!?!?!) and that he isnt now.

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Has it occured to you that perhaps he is somewhat embarrassed at admitting to looking at porn?!?
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Has it occured to you that perhaps he is somewhat embarrassed at admitting to looking at porn?!?
he said he got nervous when iu started askin him

but he said hed tell me anythin b/coz he feels he can tlel me anythin. but y b embarassed?!?!?
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he said he got nervous when iu started askin him

but he said hed tell me anythin b/coz he feels he can tlel me anythin. but y b embarassed?!?!?
Why do you think they stereotype porn to be bad thing in TV. E.g. man goes into newsagents buys a porno mag from the top shelf, and a newspaper to hide it in?

Its not something you tell your g/f either. Its a bit petty your attitude.
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