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First date - club?

Is a first 'date' to a club appropriate?

Considering that we met in a club, then immediately went back to my place.. :rolleyes:

I dont think I could handle just going to a bar, restaurant, film...blah blah blah. It just seems like so much more fun and less nerve wracking.
Thoughts.

Reply 1

Cardozo

1

No to the club, go to a bar, you can always move onto a club, but a dates personal and a club quite frankly you can hardly have a convosation.

If your just wanting her to go back to yours though (which doesn't really require dating) just meet up with her in a club.

Reply 2

+ polarity -

21

Oh gosh! How do you expect to get to know her better if you can't hear her speak!?

:no:

Reply 3

Lexi99

11

Yea clubs a bit **** for a first date, go to a bar or a pub where you can actually hear each oher speak

Reply 4

Crazy Paving

17

Pretty stupid tbh. You should go for a meal.

Reply 5

TwirlGirl

15

Go for a meal :yes:

, or for drinks at a nice bar.

Definitely not a club.

Reply 6

impossible!

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Cardozo

No to the club, go to a bar, you can always move onto a club, but a dates personal and a club quite frankly you can hardly have a convosation.

If your just wanting her to go back to yours though (which doesn't really require dating) just meet up with her in a club.

This

Club's arent date territory.

Reply 7

forever_dreamer

10

Please say you're joking.

If not: Nooooo!!! I cannot stress this enough.
First date you need to talk and connect that way, go for dinner or just a drink somewhere quiet.

Reply 8

pina.Love

17

hmm...lemme persuade you
this is how the date will be:
Scene: Loud club full of drunks and horny males.

gcampb: err..I like what you a wearing tonight
Girl: Whaaaat? I cannot hear you
gcampb: I like what you are wearing
Girl: Whaaaat?
gcampb: never mind
Girl: Whaaaat?
gcampb: Want to come back to my...*girl starts dancing with random hot dude*...house?

*end of first date*
OP you decide...

Reply 9

bmt

8

go for a meal then a drink, that way you can talk then go out after if you feel the need