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The Tap story (sorry guys)

Well, basically it's the same old story, and just another guy running hot and cold. You see, theres this nice guy at work that I admitted to liking. The guy that new told him (so nice of him really :rolleyes: ) and apparently he smiled n said, oh ok then. Well, then came the time when we were out the back after work by the lockers, n all of a sudden he just handed me this piece of paper with his mob no on!! so really calmly I said, cool cheers, would you like mine or not? so, we exchanged them n on the note it said, if you ever et bored and want to text sum1. Because erlier that day we'd said that since we broke up from skool we haven heard from mates as much as before.

But now the fog is lifting the more I think about it, the more it seems as if it was a sympathy thing?? Stupid?? I dunno!! :confused: It's just hes a really sweet guy and one that seems...wel...different ya know? Yea, ok, point taken lol.

Anyway, when I got home, he text me! so i replied and we had a cool convo n he sed, i got told summin today, n i ed was it gd news or summin ud rather not of heard? he said he thinks im gd lookin and seem to have a nice personality. That was a couple of nights ago.So I thought id text him today n he hasn replied, now I know that proabaly means bugger all. ie: out of credit, out wit mates, busy etc, but still... So i thought id confront the experts :biggrin:

lol. Soz for the essay on that, but any ideas?

thanks, luv tabz x
Guys? Hot and cold? Whatever do u mean :rolleyes: . Seems like ur on the path 2 victory with that 1 :biggrin: , and yeah, that DOES mean bugger all :wink:
He seems interested so he'll write back. Don't worry.

And I'm sure he didn't get your number just out of sympathy or pity.
Reply 3
tabbyc@t x
Well, basically it's the same old story, and just another guy running hot and cold. You see, theres this nice guy at work that I admitted to liking. The guy that new told him (so nice of him really :rolleyes: ) and apparently he smiled n said, oh ok then. Well, then came the time when we were out the back after work by the lockers, n all of a sudden he just handed me this piece of paper with his mob no on!! so really calmly I said, cool cheers, would you like mine or not? so, we exchanged them n on the note it said, if you ever et bored and want to text sum1. Because erlier that day we'd said that since we broke up from skool we haven heard from mates as much as before.

But now the fog is lifting the more I think about it, the more it seems as if it was a sympathy thing?? Stupid?? I dunno!! :confused: It's just hes a really sweet guy and one that seems...wel...different ya know? Yea, ok, point taken lol.

Anyway, when I got home, he text me! so i replied and we had a cool convo n he sed, i got told summin today, n i ed was it gd news or summin ud rather not of heard? he said he thinks im gd lookin and seem to have a nice personality. That was a couple of nights ago.So I thought id text him today n he hasn replied, now I know that proabaly means bugger all. ie: out of credit, out wit mates, busy etc, but still... So i thought id confront the experts :biggrin:

lol. Soz for the essay on that, but any ideas?

thanks, luv tabz x

Sorry couldnt be bothered to read all that could you rephrase that in bullet points
regards
Dave.
Reply 4
davidwills
Sorry couldnt be bothered to read all that could you rephrase that in bullet points
regards
Dave.

By the time you scanned the text, decided you didnt like the format and then decided to type this little message :p: you probably couldve read the whole thing...
anyhoo - hes probably uh lost his phone? :wink: trying to think of something witty to say back? ran out of cred, texting you so much etc etc
now if it was over a week, id understand
Reply 5
he was probably just busy or something like you said...or he might be not wanting to look too keen and leaving a little while before he replies....since he went out of his way to give you his number and then texted you first it would seem that he does like you so i wouldn't worry about it too much :smile:

as for the sympathy/pity thing i really doubt it, and if he had taken your number for those reasons i think just send you friend like messages not ones about how pretty you are etc
Reply 6
bloody irritating 16 year olds.....why dont you guys find some other hobby to occupy yourselves during the summer rather than boring us senseless with your stupid cringe worthy stories.
Failing that, concentrate on your studies, might help you failures a bit more than galavanting after the opposite sex at every opportunity.
Reply 7
thanx guys for the replies. From what you said, it does sound quite good, so thank you!

Oh, icon, I don't mean to be "another bloody irritating sixteen year old" it's just that this is a health and relationships forum, and that any questions that can't be answered on google can be posted here, any worriess, any queries, any advice needed, etc. So I thought id have a go. Sorry for the inconvenience :rolleyes:
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Failing that, concentrate on your studies, might help you failures a bit more than galavanting after the opposite sex at every opportunity.
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just goes to show, you can give advice over the internet but you can never get to know someone over a piece of text.
Please, don't stereotype me, you don't even know me. :rolleyes:
Reply 8
I thought this thread was gonna be about tap dance or something! Meh, thats why I entered! :frown:
Reply 9
lessthanthree
Okay.You know what? you just talked yourself out of that situation to a point where you didn't really need to post this thread.

You know it means nothing and I'm more than happy to confirm that for you.

I think you know that you need to just chill out a tiiny bit and maybe try to derive meaning from actual conversation either on the phone or in person.

Oooooo, <3 being quite frank there.
But I have to agree with her (as much as it pains me to do so :p:) Nest time you see him just satart a convo going, and see what happens. He'll reply soon enough :biggrin: