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Some random guy kissed my girlfriend :\

My girlfriend was out and she rang me in tears saying that some guy she was talking to in a club grabbed her and kissed her. She was genuinely distraught on the phone saying how much she loved me and stuff, and I do believe her. I'm not gonna split up with her over something stupid like that.

My problem is she tends to be kinda naive when it comes to situations like this. She doesn't think anything of talking to random guys in clubs for like 10 minutes or longer, whereas I know what they're probably thinking, cause she's sexy and comes across really well. She'll probably ring me again tomorrow upset, so d'you think now this has happened (nothing like this has ever happened before) I should say to her that she can be a bit too innocent about other guys sometimes? Has anyone been in a similar situation?

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Reply 1

mau5

She probably kissed him, felt guilty, cried and then blamed it all on him.

Reply 2

Gjaykay

Have a talk with her explaining that guys are in a club to get a girl home that night.

If it was me, I'd probably dump her, I mean she could have kissed him, then turned on the waterworks and lied. You never know.

Reply 3

7589200

i think either wway u shudnt make too much of it

Reply 4

Elynnor1811

why didn't she just say she had a boyfriend? or maybe she did and he was just an ass, in that case she should have punched him. i don't think you need to say anything to her..

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Well my friend rang me first and explained what happened and how upset she was before my gf came on the phone. My friend saw it and I trust that she (and my gf) wouldn't lie to me, so I'm not really questioning whether she's telling the truth. It's just ******* annoying that somebody would do it. My friend said she heard my girlfriend say that she wasn't single as well, and then he just kissed her.

So I guess I'll just speak to her tomorrow about it. I hate dickheads in clubs sometimes.

Reply 6

Xenomorph v2.1

mau5

She probably kissed him, felt guilty, cried and then blamed it all on him.

This.
If the guy just grabbed her and forced a kiss then she should be angry, not upset.
She's guilty, so she's crying.

Reply 7

Moa

Why didn't she just push him back? I don't think It was a full on assault where he grabbed her head and forced tongue down her throat, she subjected to his actions.

Reply 8

Titleist

Have her stoned to death for adultery!

Reply 9

Guy guyson

She's lying or she's a sap.
So dump her either way.

Reply 10

Zinfandel

mau5

She probably kissed him, felt guilty, cried and then blamed it all on him.

That was the very first thing that came to my mind!

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

Moa

Why didn't she just push him back? I don't think It was a full on assault where he grabbed her head and forced tongue down her throat, she subjected to his actions.

I'm not sure how long the whole thing lasted or whether there was tongue involved, but I do know she pushed him away then burst into tears. My friend used the phrase 'face rape' and said it was quite funny to watch, so I'm kind of guessing it wasn't that bad or my friend wouldn't laugh at it :/

Reply 12

username392640

mau5

She probably kissed him, felt guilty, cried and then blamed it all on him.

agreed.
you should kick the **** out of him though still.
keep your gal on a leash man

Reply 13

Genocidal

You should find the guy and beat him up. Prove your manliness!! :p:

Reply 14

Moa

Anonymous

Still, I would have my revenge on the guy. Let your gf show you which one is it, join him to talk about football or something, buy him a beer and add something nasty to it.

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

Guy guyson

She's lying or she's a sap.
So dump her either way.

Definitely more of a sap, she makes it known how she feels about me and she's the only girl I've trusted this much because of it pretty much. Which is why it's annoying that some dick thought he could touch her.

I don't think there's anyway of finding him unless he told her his name during their conversation. Knowing her, she probably knows it... maybe I'll track him down on Facebook :yep: