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Sexual Fetish for older men?

I am a girl and I get really turned on by thinking about sex with older men. Say me of 45+ I don't want an older boyfriend but I love the thought of a mature man having hot dirty sex with me. My fantasies tend to be about men like James May, Boris Johnson and Peter Owen Jones. I like to go online and read erotic stories of older men with much younger women, watch porn videos of old men and teen girls and even chat online and webcam with older men. I like acting the tease and it turns me on so much to see how excited they get over me. They can't believe their luck and their mature bodies and voices are a huge turn on for me.

I honestly don't know why I am like this, boys my own age like me and I like dating guys my own age but sexually I desire older men. I don't have "daddy" issues are I have a great relationship with my own dad who is very much involved in my life although I do enjoy erotic with father /daughter incest I am not attracted to my own father at all.

I did tell one of my friends my feelings about older men but she was disgusted, surely I can't be alone and if so why am I like this, why do older, especially older posh english guys (I am scottish) turn me on so much, am I weird?
Iv always had a kink for very old and unatractive men with beautiful young girls the combanation is so sexy to see and such a big huge massive turn on for me. For the record your not weird this is pretty normal most girls want older men as there attracted to maturity and the older type manly look. How old are you may i ask?
You're not weird. Whatever you engage in, be smart about it. Age differences come with the risk of the older party being able to more easily / subtly manipulate the younger party.
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Original post by Anonymous
I am a girl and I get really turned on by thinking about sex with older men. Say me of 45+ I don't want an older boyfriend but I love the thought of a mature man having hot dirty sex with me. My fantasies tend to be about men like James May, Boris Johnson and Peter Owen Jones. I like to go online and read erotic stories of older men with much younger women, watch porn videos of old men and teen girls and even chat online and webcam with older men. I like acting the tease and it turns me on so much to see how excited they get over me. They can't believe their luck and their mature bodies and voices are a huge turn on for me.

I honestly don't know why I am like this, boys my own age like me and I like dating guys my own age but sexually I desire older men. I don't have "daddy" issues are I have a great relationship with my own dad who is very much involved in my life although I do enjoy erotic with father /daughter incest I am not attracted to my own father at all.

I did tell one of my friends my feelings about older men but she was disgusted, surely I can't be alone and if so why am I like this, why do older, especially older posh english guys (I am scottish) turn me on so much, am I weird?

You're not weird. It's very normal for girls to be attracted to older men.

You could find them online, in dating apps, etc. us guys are often lonely these days. If you approach these older men, as long as they want a new sexual partner, they'd probably appreciate it. Girls rarely approach men these days, if you're brave I'm pretty sure you'd eventually hookup with one.
Original post by cfccfc21
Iv always had a kink for very old and unatractive men with beautiful young girls the combanation is so sexy to see and such a big huge massive turn on for me. For the record your not weird this is pretty normal most girls want older men as there attracted to maturity and the older type manly look. How old are you may i ask?


You're not weird. Whatever you engage in, be smart about it. Age differences come with the risk of the older party being able to more easily / subtly manipulate the younger party.


Original post by justlearning1469
You're not weird. It's very normal for girls to be attracted to older men.

You could find them online, in dating apps, etc. us guys are often lonely these days. If you approach these older men, as long as they want a new sexual partner, they'd probably appreciate it. Girls rarely approach men these days, if you're brave I'm pretty sure you'd eventually hookup with one.


I'm so impressed by members and a forum volunteer taking the time to respond to a 12 year old attention seeking thread, that clearly didn't work back in the day before the London Olympics and when David Cameron was Prime Minister.

The good news, of course is that in the unlikely event that this thread is real, the OP will now probably be in her 30s and the whole issue is moot.