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I Liked this boy since induction day-didnt really spk 2 him at 6th form in july and i started school on monday
he is sooo shy and quiet around girls its so frustrating...dont think ive ever heard him speak in my presence when im chattin 2 his friends
never seen him speak to any girls!
what can i do...i would go talk 2 him but i never see him on his own and i dont think we have any frees at the same time-ill check to 2moro as thats when my last free of the week is
my friend whos in abt 3 of his lessons has never even spoken to him....
he is sooo shy and quiet around girls its so frustrating...dont think ive ever heard him speak in my presence when im chattin 2 his friends
never seen him speak to any girls!
what can i do...i would go talk 2 him but i never see him on his own and i dont think we have any frees at the same time-ill check to 2moro as thats when my last free of the week is
my friend whos in abt 3 of his lessons has never even spoken to him....
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Maybe he doesn't want to talk to you?
Absolution
Maybe he doesn't want to talk to you?
lol thats a gd point but he doesnt tlk 2 any girls-i got the deal from his friend
lol im one of them ppl that expects ppl 2 jus join in convos i have with ppl-and a lot do but he jus stands there silent!
ComebackQueen
lol thats a gd point but he doesnt tlk 2 any girls-i got the deal from his friend
lol im one of them ppl that expects ppl 2 jus join in convos i have with ppl-and a lot do but he jus stands there silent!
lol im one of them ppl that expects ppl 2 jus join in convos i have with ppl-and a lot do but he jus stands there silent!
Maybe he's uber shy, try engaging him directly?
Although, how can you like someone you've never spoken to?!
ComebackQueen
lol thats a gd point but he doesnt tlk 2 any girls-i got the deal from his friend
lol im one of them ppl that expects ppl 2 jus join in convos i have with ppl-and a lot do but he jus stands there silent!
lol im one of them ppl that expects ppl 2 jus join in convos i have with ppl-and a lot do but he jus stands there silent!
Get his email address off someone - it's easier for shy people to get to know other people on the internet.
P.S. *Must* you use text speak?
Eeyore
Get his email address off someone - it's easier for shy people to get to know other people on the internet.
P.S. *Must* you use text speak?
P.S. *Must* you use text speak?
lol i'm sorry, its force of a habit...i blame msn when i text i use predictive!
someone suggested chatting to him on msn but thats so awkward
Absolution
Maybe he's uber shy, try engaging him directly?
Although, how can you like someone you've never spoken to?!
Although, how can you like someone you've never spoken to?!
lol physical attraction but i know somethings about him that i like in guys-ambition, intelligence and humour
ComebackQueen
lol physical attraction but i know somethings about him that i like in guys-ambition, intelligence and humour
erm, get him pissed and pull him. That appears to be all you care about anyway.
MB
ComebackQueen
lol physical attraction but i know somethings about him that i like in guys-ambition, intelligence and humour
You like ambition, intelligence AND humour?
Wow you are hard to please!
Absolution
You like ambition, intelligence AND humour?
Wow you are hard to please!
Wow you are hard to please!
lol those are elements of my personality though-apparently with the humour
but i kind of like that he's shy...its cute but its gettin so frustrating
i do not want to jus pull this guy! that is so pathetic if it was that i would not be worried bout gettin to know him...reason i wanna speak to him is to know whether im wasting my time or not...his personality might be totally rubbish
Tell him you like "Jadakiss" and he'll think your some ghetto wild-out chick and fall at your feet. Maybe....maybe not.
legbreakgoogly
Tell him you like "Jadakiss" and he'll think your some ghetto wild-out chick and fall at your feet. Maybe....maybe not.
how did you deduce an appreciation of rap music from anything i said...and if he falls at my feet cause i mention i like jadakiss(not particulary btw) then he's not worth the hassle
That's Jada-Montega. *mwah* 
I myself am an Indie-Rock guy, but I know most youth like rap and stuff, so I thought you may attract him by feigning an interst in his interests.
I was trying to help, dude (et).
I myself am an Indie-Rock guy, but I know most youth like rap and stuff, so I thought you may attract him by feigning an interst in his interests.
I was trying to help, dude (et).
legbreakgoogly
That's Jada-Montega. *mwah*
I myself am an Indie-Rock guy, but I know most youth like rap and stuff, so I thought you may attract him by feigning an interst in his interests.
I was trying to help, dude (et).
I myself am an Indie-Rock guy, but I know most youth like rap and stuff, so I thought you may attract him by feigning an interst in his interests.
I was trying to help, dude (et).
most youths like rap for the wrong reasons tho...cause of fools like 50 cents thats not rap its jus "gangsta pop music"
im into all kinds of music but i draw the line at things like slip knot
Aye.
Listen to some Simple Plan or Journey.
Some Hip Hop is cool. But too much of it does my head in...
Listen to some Simple Plan or Journey.
Some Hip Hop is cool. But too much of it does my head in...
Dont do something stupid like talk to him over the internet, you wont get to know the real him, and dont use text messages. Ask him to do something with you or some friends straight to his face, if you havent got the courage to do that then there is no point. If he says No, his loss. If he says Yes....you're putting yourself in a good position to get to know him better.
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An
umm... how about you go and talk to him without any other people around, say 'hi,' introduce yourself in a friendly manner (i.e. don't do anything loud or scary... in my experience a lot of shy people get intimidated if you are too enthusiastic... or if you have 10 other people watching the conversation), then wander off. that way, he'll know who you are, and he can talk to you if you like. don't force yourself on him, just be nice and friendly and see if he responds.
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