Feeling guilty after sex Watch
It's especially at the end of sex, after getting all the satisfaction, I'm there thinking "Was it really worth it?". I know that it's common for some guys to feel a bit guilty after an orgasm but it's especially then that my mind clears up and I realise what I'm doing.
Are any other people in a messy situation like mine or simply feel a bit guilty after sex? I know that in the past, when I was sleeping with a girl I didn't particularly find that great, every time we had sex, I just wanted her to leave as soon as we'd finished. It's horrible but it seems like that when my mind takes over from my ****.
And ex sex is rarely a good idea- because of what has passed between the pair of you it can't be just sex i.e.sex between two people who know how to do one another. Mostly because knowing what to do is the result of a lot of other factors, situations and confidences you have shared.
To move on you have to move on *entirely* from the situation. And from your post it is clear that you know this. Move on. At the very least it frees you for intimate times with the one you'll always love the most- yourself
Nothing to some and too much to others!
Take my advice - you wont change your ways a great deal until you have met the 'one', so forget the hang ups and keep shagging.
Maybe if u just checked with her that she doesn't expect anything to come of it, then u'd feel less guilty?
Then u know ur having definite "no-strings" sex, and ur both free to enjoy it
If u still feel guilty, perhaps you should stop having sex until u find someone "worth" having sex with. (not trying to say ur ex isn't worth it or nething)
casual sex with someone you're not going out with. Doesn't sex mean anything to some people?
If it didnt mean anything he wouldnt be doing it....