his frenulum ripped!!! yeouch! didn't hurt at the time but sex is impossible and has been for a month! to be honest things never run smoothly! either he can't climax, it hurts or he's too ill! it just feels very frustrating
In my experience the average woman is insecure about approximately all of her body in some way or another - so I don't see anything terribly wrong with many men having a similar "concern" with one particular body part, particularly when this insecurity is probably caused (or at least made worse) by some (though not all) women.
Though of course, there are two sides to every coin, and in this case (or at least in this thread thus far), one is all but forgotten. Being "above average" can be just as much (if not more) of a problem than being "below". Even the British/European Standards agencies seem to "forget" about this, as to get a Kitemark, condoms can only come under two "maximum widths" - "normal" and "snug"!
Of course US men have the biggest cocks. They also have the best bodies, the best teeth the best tits. Jeez. The "It's what you do with it" line sounds patronising. I blame pornography lines such as "you're so big" help propogate the belief that no matter what a woman says, if it was bigger, she wouldn't complain.