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Why Why Why!!? hasn't he called

Ok so basically this has been bugging me for ages.
I pulled a guy in a club in town, and he took my number and he was really really nice and we got along really well.
Sooooo he texts me the next day, and he really wants to meet up, so we text each other all week and meet up the following weekend. He's the one wanting to meet and seems really keen.
We meet up, everything goes really well, he seems really into me, we go shopping, drink coffee and have a great time, he keeps on saying that he wants to take me out again and stuff.
So we part company, im really chuffed and he says he wants to see me again.
You can guess it cant you!
The little ***** hasnt made any contact with me since, and i text him a few times and he didnt reply. So basically what the hell!? why did he do this? If he didnt fancy me then why did he come onto me so much and why couldnt he just be cool and we could be mates?
raa!
eleanor.ellis
Ok so basically this has been bugging me for ages.
I pulled a guy in a club in town, and he took my number and he was really really nice and we got along really well.
Sooooo he texts me the next day, and he really wants to meet up, so we text each other all week and meet up the following weekend. He's the one wanting to meet and seems really keen.
We meet up, everything goes really well, he seems really into me, we go shopping, drink coffee and have a great time, he keeps on saying that he wants to take me out again and stuff.
So we part company, im really chuffed and he says he wants to see me again.
You can guess it cant you!
The little ***** hasnt made any contact with me since, and i text him a few times and he didnt reply. So basically what the hell!? why did he do this? If he didnt fancy me then why did he come onto me so much and why couldnt he just be cool and we could be mates?
raa!


Maybe he has been abducted by Islamic Fundamentalists.
Reply 2
Maybe he's just not that into you :biggrin:
Reply 3
i know that, but why do they do the whole 'wow your so great' and then not say anything? unless hes had his hands cut off, or gone to live with wolves if i see him again im gonna make him pay. revenge mwahaha
Reply 4
How long has it been since you saw him??
The best thing to do since he hasn't replied is give it a few days n then ring him for a general chat...then see if he mentions it?
since he was so into you i would guess that thes just confused...? i dont know..
but yeah how long since you went out together?
maybe he got scared off if you came on a bit strong? or he could just be a typical male :p:
Ah the possibilities are endless.

Maybe he is in the middle of contract negotiations with Jose Mourinho.
xXMessedUpXx
maybe he got scared off if you came on a bit strong? or he could just be a typical male :p:


Nowt quite like a stereotype :biggrin:

Maybe something crazy has happened in his life. To be honest it could be anything so ask him. Communication is the key!
dont text him any more - golden rule dont text more than once without a reply, makes you look desperate.

Maybe he met someone else after your date/maybe his phone is broken/maybe he's trying to play hard to get after his initial over-keeness

dont stress it...you didnt make any commitment so you should just forget about him until he makes contact
Reply 9
ClosetGinger
dont text him any more - golden rule dont text more than once without a reply, makes you look desperate.

Maybe he met someone else after your date/maybe his phone is broken/maybe he's trying to play hard to get after his initial over-keeness

dont stress it...you didnt make any commitment so you should just forget about him until he makes contact

yeah your right, its just the pits being dropped! anyway its uni soon, thousand more people to drop me there i'll soon forget about it!
Reply 10
xXMessedUpXx
........or he could just be a typical male :p:


:eek: :eek: :eek: MOMMY!!! - how could you say such a thing? After all - you brought me up.....
Reply 11
If he treats you like this then he's not worth it anyway! Sounds like he just got cold feet about the whole thing. Maybe his mates took the piss or something. You know what men are like sometimes.
Evenstar
If he treats you like this then he's not worth it anyway! Sounds like he just got cold feet about the whole thing. Maybe his mates took the piss or something. You know what men are like sometimes.


Could be something as simple as not having his phone switched on. Or he might have just changed his mind if hes got what he wanted from you. Some guys are like that.
Reply 13
blissy
Maybe he's just not that into you :biggrin:


Exactly what I was going to say :biggrin:

I miss Sex and the City!! So much wisdom...
Reply 14
eleanor.ellis
i know that, but why do they do the whole 'wow your so great' and then not say anything? unless hes had his hands cut off, or gone to live with wolves if i see him again im gonna make him pay. revenge mwahaha

As has been pointed out there could be a multitude of reasons, surely its better to hold off thinking of a response untill you have more information
Reply 16
i think personnaly he was just after a quick bonk..and since u didnt bed him he's lost interest and ragged someone else