i am female and i am desperate to lose my virginity

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im pretty shy and im also kida unsure about my sexuality.
im 20 and will be 21 soon.
in uni i have had plenty of opportunities to have sex, yet for some reason im too embarrassed to tell people im a virgin. some are only after casual sex so i doubt theyd take your virginity...and im kinda embarrassed to with someone i live with.
if i had sex then it might help me know if im straight and id be more up for meeting new guys cuz i will be able to have sex with them. ive never had a bf either which causes me further embarrassment. ive been told many times im attractive in uni so its not rly tht that is the issue.

i rly want to lose it in the first couple of months when i go back to uni. but i dont know how to go about it. here are some options

1. meet a guy in a club
although this is the easiest way to meet someone who wants to sleep with you, it would be too dangerous too consider.

2. meet a guy in a club, take his number and date him.
from my experience of guys ive met in clubs, theyv been ***** and ugly.

3. meeta housemate.
i dont know who my housemates are yet so i dont know if ill get on with them.

i dont have many friends, so my options are rly limited. and if some friend ofa friend is interested i gt embarrassed cuz my housemates are there, but mostly i dont wanna lead him on when im a virgin.

how can i get over this predicament?
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Dont be embarrassed, that's all I can really say the rest is up to you. That and Id do you if you want.
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why can't you wait? don't bow to media hype, its not taboo to be a virgin at 20!
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You only lose your virginity once.

It might sound cliche and soppy, but why not wait to lose it with someone you care about? There's no rush.
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I don't think guys who want casual sex will mind that you're a virgin. Just go for someone who you can think back on your first time with happy memories. I don't think it necessarily has to be special...haha, as long as you can look back on it without cringing (too much!) then it's all good imo.
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(Original post by Aphasia)
I don't think guys who want casual sex will mind that you're a virgin.
Are you kidding me?? It will be an added bonus.
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I don't think guys who want casual sex will mind that you're a virgin.
I would. Clingy, eugh.
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You can pay people to take it away from you, even if your horribly disfigured
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EBAY, make money get your wish win win!
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(Original post by sir-lewis)
EBAY, make money get your wish win win!
^That.
I read a woman made £16,000 off selling her virginity. Plenty of old perverts with money to burn nowadays ;D
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There all bad options. Nothing wrong with being V at 20. Its no big deal. Just look after yourself ;-), until you meet someone worthwhile because shagging someone for the sake of being able to say you aint a v anymore will be regrettable. Basically meet a nice guy or girl. Your choice :-D
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(Original post by fredo22)
why can't you wait? don't bow to media hype, its not taboo to be a virgin at 20!
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youre thinking too much about this ****
just ******* do it so you can get on with your life
go out today to the mall or wherever, be friendly and smile a lot. go upto a guy you like and ask for a date.
its controlling your life
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There's no rush!
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i am male but i am not desperate to lose my virginity...

(In all seriousness, I'm sure you can pay a trained escort for such a service).

Out of interest, are you motivated by curiosity...or intense sexual frustration?
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To be honest, I feel the same way. I very nearly lost my virginity on holiday but backed out at the last minute, but yeah.. I'm hoping university will be an interesting experience.
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To be honest, I feel the same way. I very nearly lost my virginity on holiday but backed out at the last minute, but yeah.. I'm hoping university will be an interesting experience.
Which Uni are you going to attend?
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It's like feeding time at the zoo..

OP: do you really want to look back at your first time and cringe? i'm guessing not by your post. Wait till you meet a guy and after a few dates it looks like it's actually going somewhere meaningful.
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(Original post by vinyard)
Which Uni are you going to attend?
I'll be at Leeds in September! Nowhere near you, I presume.
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