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How do I get a guys attention without talking to him?. in other words what the best method of flirting?

I really like this guy but he is always busy with other things as he is really brainy! im confused i want to flirt but dont know the best way to go about it. HELP.

Thanks xx

Reply 1

Geogger

13

Dragoness

How do I get a guys attention without talking to him?. in other words what the best method of flirting?

I really like this guy but he is always busy with other things as he is really brainy! im confused i want to flirt but dont know the best way to go about it. HELP.

Thanks xx

Why not ask him for help on a particular piece of work.....choose it carefully though... and then after he's finished explaing you can then smile and be very grateful etc..

Reply 2

Zerforax

21

'trip over' and fall into his arms?

Reply 3

evil groove

Drop your folder/books in front of him so that he has to help you catch all the paper that flies out...just hope he actually does stop to help though.

Reply 4

EPD

11

Turn up naked with beer.

Reply 5

dimexi

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El Pollo Diablo

Turn up naked with beer.

ah that will get everyones attention lol she needs to narrow down the search...
try going up to him to chat :P like with a question as someone suggested lol... or just look at him and when he looks back smmmiiilllee!! that always does it for me lol

Reply 6

EPD

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dimexi

ah that will get everyones attention lol she needs to narrow down the search...

Just find his address and turn up there. And take a pizza too, to be doubly sure.

Reply 7

emit.

2

make a jokey comment which a look of seduction :smile:

Reply 8

Anubis

1

Go over and say something like:

"Erm....excuse me, but I don't suppose you know how I can get to room whatever." Then wait for answer, then say "ah ok thank you. So, what are you studying there?", and keep asking questions about him. He will then engage in convo with you.

Simple. :smile:

Reply 9

indy_punk

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just go up and introduce urself and pick a relevant topic of convo...and go from there.theres no point flirting if u dont know how to (not meant to be a bad thing tbh)..just be urself!
or get someone to introduce u to him.but the best thing is gradually build it up....like smile then go on to sayin hello..and then chattin .
or get his msn addy of his mates and lo behold!

Reply 10

The Albatross

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indy_punk

theres no point flirting if u dont know how to (not meant to be a bad thing tbh)..just be urself!

haha
i didn't know how to flirt with my now boyf. he says he didn't really notice any anyway! I did try to touch him, sit close to him etc, but the way i showed i liked him was just by spending a lot of time with him, and talking for hours in his room. then he started to miss me when i wasn't there!
so its best to build a up a friendship first, and take it from there.

Reply 11

pink_lucie

14

indy_punk

just go up and introduce urself and pick a relevant topic of convo...and go from there.theres no point flirting if u dont know how to (not meant to be a bad thing tbh)..just be urself!
or get someone to introduce u to him.but the best thing is gradually build it up....like smile then go on to sayin hello..and then chattin .
or get his msn addy of his mates and lo behold!

no, she looks dumb then. lol why not catch his eye a few times, and then when he see's you looking look just that little bit longer.....do this over a few days and he has to talk to you!

Reply 12

Amlea

1

i gagree with gossip girl!! Its simple and won't back fire!!

Reply 13

Molsaka G

1

Dragoness

How do I get a guys attention without talking to him?. in other words what the best method of flirting?

I really like this guy but he is always busy with other things as he is really brainy! im confused i want to flirt but dont know the best way to go about it. HELP.

Thanks xx

Flash him!! :biggrin:

(sorry!!)

Reply 14

rainy_skye

haha - some of these suggestions are so funny... hmm yeah i agree with the eye contact thing.. but then im probably no help - 1. guys don't notice when im flirting, and 2. i dont notice when they are flirting.. lol im stuck!!