Masturbation is not working

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bobbie pattinson
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I can assure you this is a real problem I'm facing. I know it sounds stupid but it is 100% true.

I'm a guy and normal masturbation is not working anymore. I bought a fleshlight (a sex toy vagina) a few months ago. Although it wasnt great to begin with, after a few uses it was really good - I have really intense climaxes that make me feel very relaxed, very sensitive and weak at the knees afterwards. It takes varying time to make me reach climax depending on which position I use the fleshlight in.

However, regular masturbation is simply not working. I have tried it several times and I have been trying to 'get off' for close to an hour and it hasnt worked. regular masturbation is no longer fun and i need a fleshlight to get me off.

is this normal? have i lost sensitivity down there perhaps and need a fleshlight which more closely resembles sex to help me climax? why is normal masturbation not working?
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Maybe you should find something else to do. :console:
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Could be stress?

Or perhaps you could find yourself a nice willing playmate..
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Have you tried getting laid irl? This might help stimulate it
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You lost your mojo
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(Original post by bobbie pattinson)
I can assure you this is a real problem I'm facing. I know it sounds stupid but it is 100% true.

I'm a guy and normal masturbation is not working anymore. I bought a fleshlight (a sex toy vagina) a few months ago. Although it wasnt great to begin with, after a few uses it was really good - I have really intense climaxes that make me feel very relaxed, very sensitive and weak at the knees afterwards. It takes varying time to make me reach climax depending on which position I use the fleshlight in.

However, regular masturbation is simply not working. I have tried it several times and I have been trying to 'get off' for close to an hour and it hasnt worked. regular masturbation is no longer fun and i need a fleshlight to get me off.

is this normal? have i lost sensitivity down there perhaps and need a fleshlight which more closely resembles sex to help me climax? why is normal masturbation not working?
It's just like anything else that is "better"

If you get a super-duper ferarri, obviously that corsa won't be as attractive anymore.

It probably goes for the same with masturbation and you take it up a notch with sex toys. That and masturbation may make you less sensitive
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I'm guessing your penis is small?

Do you have a girlfriend?
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Masturbate with a real vagina, like a fleshlight, y'know, it's quite similar.
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Call tech support!
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lol wow din't you feel embarrassed buying it...really?....like c'mon.......for real?
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how long have you tried giving it a rest for? I'm sure after a 4-5 days you'll be raring to go again (I'm guessing anyone who gets a urgh *****light, sorry that name gives me the creeps, is trying to get his money's worth, but err you have to take biological considerations also
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just stop for a while. I'm sure testosterone will reassert itself! or get a girlfriend - substantially more exciting than any plastic fanny.
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(Original post by A-W-H)
Masturbate with a real vagina, like a fleshlight, y'know, it's quite similar.
yeah reviews on the internet said a fleshlight and real sex (the physical feeling) are almost identical, apart from the fact you have no girl's body against you with a fleshlight. regular masturbation with my right hand does not compare to it anymore and i cant get off with it.
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(Original post by bobbie pattinson)
yeah reviews on the internet said a fleshlight and real sex (the physical feeling) are almost identical, apart from the fact you have no girl's body against you with a fleshlight. regular masturbation with my right hand does not compare to it anymore and i cant get off with it.
Don't try and get off for ages, or try your left?
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(Original post by Joey_Barton)
how long have you tried giving it a rest for? I'm sure after a 4-5 days you'll be raring to go again (I'm guessing anyone who gets a urgh *****light, sorry that name gives me the creeps, is trying to get his money's worth, but err you have to take biological considerations also
it depends. i masturbate no more than twice a day.

on average though, I do it once every 2 days, sometimes once every 3 or 4 days but i cant last more than 4 days nowadays without really just wanting to use that fleshlight. i dont think i am masturbating that often. not as often as quite a few guys do it. to be honest, i dont do it more often because my penis starts to feel a bit sore if I do it a lot.

but i have left it for several days and masturbated using my right hand, and that didnt work. i think however long i wait, my right hand will never be able to get me off again.
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lol wow din't you feel embarrassed buying it...really?....like c'mon.......for real?
not really. it comes in discreet, anonymous packaging and I read loads of reviews saying how good it was. after a few mediocre uses to begin with, it was amazing and masturbation (as long as you dont do it too often) is healthy and feels so great with a fleshlight. and I am quite a horny guy.:p: but after using this for a few months, I am worried at how regular masturbation simply doesnt work and if there's something wrong and what could be causing it.
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try stopping for a short while and not using any sexual toys, pretty much you just get used to the better feeling from sex toys, so when you use your hand it generally just does not get your body going in the same sexual way as it used to
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I think you're probably bored. Stop for a couple of weeks and you should actually want to do it again.
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Buy another fleshlight lol- that's really sad btw :yep:
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