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imasillynarb
Take control of it and stop letting your parents push you around then, do you have to pay your parents money to live at home? If so you'll probably find it better to rent a room in a different house..
if only I could afford to move out...........financing 2nd degree is costing me a fortune and I just don' have the finances to suport living out of home again
kriztinae
parents always control your life in one way or another.
They needn't though, not to that degree.
kriztinae
mine dont even let me date.
How old are ya?
JackieS
Anyone else had their parents ban their BF/GF from staying over as punishment for an argument..................my parents just did.................you wouldn't think I was 23..........
Go and stay at his instead
englishstudent
They needn't though, not to that degree.
How old are ya?
How old are ya?
im 18.
how do u get away from it?
i live under their roof, im not entitled to a student loan, they pay for my whole university degree. plus i dont have a job
i know the smart thing would be to get a job but its hard when your living in two countries.
plus i love my parents i couldnt just leave them like that.
be thankful he can actually stay over, i think it's weird sleeping with your partner while they're in.
skatergirlannie
be thankful he can actually stay over, i think it's weird sleeping with your partner while they're in.
oh I am grateful! I know of mates who's BF's still can't stay over and they've been together for 4 years! But being used to having thm being allowed to stay over makes it horrid when they can't
Don't let u date? Thats harsh!! Luckily i moved out of my mums three-four months ago cos she kept trying to control my life and we argued alot. Best thing I did though cos I couldn't be happier. Im living with my boyfriend and me and my mum get along brilliantly now we not living with each other.
QUOTE if only I could afford to move out...........financing 2nd degree is costing me a fortune and I just don' have the finances to suport living out of home again QUOTE
If u can't afford a place of your own could you not house share?
QUOTE if only I could afford to move out...........financing 2nd degree is costing me a fortune and I just don' have the finances to suport living out of home again QUOTE
If u can't afford a place of your own could you not house share?
kriztinae
im 18.
how do u get away from it?
i live under their roof, im not entitled to a student loan, they pay for my whole university degree. plus i dont have a job
i know the smart thing would be to get a job but its hard when your living in two countries.
plus i love my parents i couldnt just leave them like that.
how do u get away from it?
i live under their roof, im not entitled to a student loan, they pay for my whole university degree. plus i dont have a job
i know the smart thing would be to get a job but its hard when your living in two countries.
plus i love my parents i couldnt just leave them like that.
Everyone's entitled to some sort of loan I think. Anyway, moving out would be pretty drastic, I reckon sometimes it's just worth sitting down and discussing things with them. If you're not dating because they don't want you to (rather than you not wanting to yourself) resentment will build up and ultimately they're only delaying something which will happen eventually anyway. I know it's tricky though. To the OP: It's pretty unreasonable of them to use that as a punishment but I suppose all you can do is try to talk to them about it.
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