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oral and hair

hey
my guy has never really given me oral. he's tried twice but only for like less than a minute at a time. i don't wanna ask him, cos i'm kinda embarassed. i think it's cos i've never done nething bout the hair 'down there'.
wen u go to the beauty salon, what do u ask for? a bikini wax or what? will that solve the too much hair problem? i don't wanna shave, it's really itchy isn't it? if i wax how often will i have to do it? and how much will it cost (in the london area)?
sorry for all the questions! hope someone can help!
xxxx

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Reply 1
ask for a brazilian. TRUST ME. then give him head.. and ask him to return the favour and say you have a suprise!
Reply 2
when u get a brazilian, and u don't wanna keep doing it, does it itch when the hair grows back?
Reply 3
dunno, im a guy :biggrin: doubt it
Reply 4
Get a hollywood :cool: Its fabbo.
Get a new guy...a more creative one. :biggrin:
fairycakes
does it itch when the hair grows back?

it shouldn't... just exfoliate (use sugar, it's great for that) from time to time so that you don't get ingrown (is that a word?) hair
Reply 7
what's a hollywood?
ooh...i really dunno bout shaving...i think i'd really prefer waxing...
Reply 8
Can't you do it yourself?
Reply 9
and would a normal bikini wax not solve the problem then?
imasillynarb
Can't you do it yourself?

that area is a bit risky... already gives you the shivers when you know you have to pull the waxing strip on your leg... bikini area is even worse

fairycakes, it might, perhaps you could start with that and find what you're comfortable with
Maybe your guys just not comfortable doing it, talk to him, it might not be an issue at all...

Failing that, if you decide to do the lack of hair thing, shavings cheaper, you can do it every day in the shower (like someone said), and it doesnt itch if you keep it up, only a little bit if you decide to let it grow back :smile:
Reply 12
fairycakes
what's a hollywood?
ooh...i really dunno bout shaving...i think i'd really prefer waxing...


Total hair removal from that area. Its best done at a salon but you could shave. Salon lasts longer but shaving is ok if you do it regularly.
Reply 13
ahh...i'm kinda scared now, definately no shaving, i don't wanna have to keep dealing with it more often, and i don't wanna cut myself! and no i think the hair is a thing, he has mentioned it a couple times in passing, but i've always changed the subject really quick cos i'm kinda embarassed.
so basically, in terms of not much hair removal -> everything gone, it's bikini, then brazilian then hollywood...? is there nothing in between bikini and brazilian?
and with a bikini, how much hair actually comes off?
don't worry, you can talk to the lady at the salon and tell her more or less what you want... :smile:
Anything that doesn't fit in a bikini. Depends on the size of the bikini though :biggrin:
You're brave to do the waxing biz... I'm too much of a wussy :p:
Reply 17
nah, i'm really scared...but i wanna know what it feels like for a guy to go down on u...
btw is this dealing with hair down there business a thing that lots of girls do? i haven't talked to my friends about it yet...
also, i think i know what a brazilian is, it's when u have a strip of hair right?
right, some people do, some people don't... Most tend to keep it in check, as in, if no shaving or waxing a bit of a trim. There's no right or wrong, it just depends what you're comfortable with, what you want, and the amount of pain you can stand :wink:
I think people make a very big deal about it when it's actually something that many girls do. There's nothing wrong with not wanting to do it, you're the one who has to feel comfortable with your body.
It does hurt a bit but not as much as people think (especially if you've never shaved before) and remember that if for whatever reason you don't like it, it won't last that long and unlike shaving, it won't make it thicker so you'll soon be back to your normal. Besides, the women in these salons are usually more than used to girls' questions and won't mind answering them for you.