Errr.... it just does. We usually go in after a few drinks elsewhere, get a drink, watch some pole dancing and then get a private dance with two dancers (if you're in on a quiet night they usually settle for a deal, so 15 quid instead of 20 (10 each*)). Then maybe have another drink and go home. I feel like I have nothing to say to describe it and I should say try it for yourself, but I also know it won't be to everyone's pleasure. It's just a nice, pleasant (dare I say arousing) experience. We love it.
*standard price. Varies some places.