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Im just tryina say the way kathhhy lee needs regis, the way school need teachers, that's the way I need jesuss..
OK so waddup.. I think women who say they don't like cocky guys are insecure and see cockyness as a threat to that insecurity and push these guys away because they don't want to risk getting hurt. By getting hurt I mean having their fragile egos shattered.
Am I right or am I harsh?
OK so waddup.. I think women who say they don't like cocky guys are insecure and see cockyness as a threat to that insecurity and push these guys away because they don't want to risk getting hurt. By getting hurt I mean having their fragile egos shattered.
Am I right or am I harsh?
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I'm not insecure, I like guys with some degree of confidence but when they're really in your face with it that's just a massive turn-off for me as it grates on my nerves. I like guys with a certain amount of humility. There's only so far a cocky guy can get without being regarded as pushy.
I don't have a fragile ego, I just know what I want.
I don't have a fragile ego, I just know what I want.
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(Original post by Phonicsdude)
Im just tryina say the way kathhhy lee needs regis, the way school need teachers, that's the way I need jesuss..
OK so waddup.. I think women who say they don't like cocky guys are insecure and see cockyness as a threat to that insecurity and push these guys away because they don't want to risk getting hurt. By getting hurt I mean having their fragile egos shattered.
Am I right or am I harsh?
Im just tryina say the way kathhhy lee needs regis, the way school need teachers, that's the way I need jesuss..
OK so waddup.. I think women who say they don't like cocky guys are insecure and see cockyness as a threat to that insecurity and push these guys away because they don't want to risk getting hurt. By getting hurt I mean having their fragile egos shattered.
Am I right or am I harsh?
So naah... its not fear of getting hurt, just not something you want in a guy!
Honestly, if they are that cocky then no-one else would want them anyway so its not like they can leave you for anyone else!
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(Original post by pomme de terre)
I like cocky guys, so what does that make me!?
I like cocky guys, so what does that make me!?
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(Original post by Gez1990)
I'm not insecure, I like guys with some degree of confidence but when they're really in your face with it that's just a massive turn-off for me as it grates on my nerves. I like guys with a certain amount of humility. There's only so far a cocky guy can get without being regarded as pushy.
I don't have a fragile ego, I just know what I want.
I'm not insecure, I like guys with some degree of confidence but when they're really in your face with it that's just a massive turn-off for me as it grates on my nerves. I like guys with a certain amount of humility. There's only so far a cocky guy can get without being regarded as pushy.
I don't have a fragile ego, I just know what I want.
Agree about being too cocky though. But if you can back it up then where's the issue...as long as it's not compensating for something..
edit: would you say Mourinho is too cocky? how about cristiano ronaldo?
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Rejected by a girl for being too cocky OP? 
Happens to all of us.
"Cocky," "Arrogant," "Murderous..." Whatever right?
Happens to all of us.
"Cocky," "Arrogant," "Murderous..." Whatever right?
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Ummm, how about I just don't want a man who thinks he's right / the best all the time. Like the relationship would ever be about me. A bit of balance would be nice please 
Also overconfidence = ****.
Also overconfidence = ****.
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Not too fond of them. Confidence is good but overdoing it is just lame.
And trust me, OP... my ego is very far from fragile. In fact, you can use it to build nuclear submarines.
And trust me, OP... my ego is very far from fragile. In fact, you can use it to build nuclear submarines.
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(Original post by Phonicsdude)
Cocky doesn't mean in your face. It means edgy. Confident in his own abilities. Just a bit of ego.
Agree about being too cocky though. But if you can back it up then where's the issue...as long as it's not compensating for something..
edit: would you say Mourinho is too cocky? how about cristiano ronaldo?
Cocky doesn't mean in your face. It means edgy. Confident in his own abilities. Just a bit of ego.
Agree about being too cocky though. But if you can back it up then where's the issue...as long as it's not compensating for something..
edit: would you say Mourinho is too cocky? how about cristiano ronaldo?
I'm not really sure what my issue is with cocky guys, if I'm honest. I just think certain personalities match up perfectly and cocky people are perhaps better off with other cocky people. I just find it off-putting
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girls love arrogant guys.
Or should i say they like genuine cockiness.....forced arrogance just comes off annoying and try hard. A woman really just wants a man who is very superior to her, such a man would know it, and would display it effortlessly...
Or should i say they like genuine cockiness.....forced arrogance just comes off annoying and try hard. A woman really just wants a man who is very superior to her, such a man would know it, and would display it effortlessly...
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I loathe cocky guys - and since I am a heterosexual man, this is clearly not due to 'fear of being hurt'.
I think most people of both sexes hate cocky guys.
Cristiano Ronaldo is a good example of the sort of immature, arrogant narcissist I hate, and I'm not the only one: http://www.soccernews.com/top-10-mos...anagers/39099/
I think most people of both sexes hate cocky guys.
Cristiano Ronaldo is a good example of the sort of immature, arrogant narcissist I hate, and I'm not the only one: http://www.soccernews.com/top-10-mos...anagers/39099/
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Cristiano Ronaldo is allowed to be a bit cocky, he's ace at Football and he is seeing Kim Kardashian!!
The BASSTURD!
The BASSTURD!
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(Original post by Phonicsdude)
Cocky doesn't mean in your face. It means edgy. Confident in his own abilities. Just a bit of ego.
Agree about being too cocky though. But if you can back it up then where's the issue...as long as it's not compensating for something..
edit: would you say Mourinho is too cocky? how about cristiano ronaldo?
Cocky doesn't mean in your face. It means edgy. Confident in his own abilities. Just a bit of ego.
Agree about being too cocky though. But if you can back it up then where's the issue...as long as it's not compensating for something..
edit: would you say Mourinho is too cocky? how about cristiano ronaldo?
Christiano Ronaldo has won countless footballing trophies. What are your abilities again?
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#18
I hate cocky guys and, again, it's not fear of being hurt. I can't stand cocky people full stop - as friends, as partners, even just being in the same room as the particularly loud ones.
I don't understand why anyone would want to be around someone who clearly thinks they're gods gift.
I don't understand why anyone would want to be around someone who clearly thinks they're gods gift.
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its very hit and miss with me i hate the cocky ones who are very chavvy e.g "yo whats ya number" (happend at a bus stop to me).
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(Original post by Phonicsdude)
Im just tryina say the way kathhhy lee needs regis, the way school need teachers, that's the way I need jesuss..
OK so waddup.. I think women who say they don't like cocky guys are insecure and see cockyness as a threat to that insecurity and push these guys away because they don't want to risk getting hurt. By getting hurt I mean having their fragile egos shattered.
Am I right or am I harsh?
Im just tryina say the way kathhhy lee needs regis, the way school need teachers, that's the way I need jesuss..
OK so waddup.. I think women who say they don't like cocky guys are insecure and see cockyness as a threat to that insecurity and push these guys away because they don't want to risk getting hurt. By getting hurt I mean having their fragile egos shattered.
Am I right or am I harsh?
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