Boyfriends!!

Hello

Well me and my b/f both work at the same place and over summer we have been both working a lot of hours hence we not been able to see each other out of work! it is driving me mad :angry:

we wa gunna go to the cinemas last night but he sed he felt ill :frown:

last time we went out was last tuesday over a week and a half ago shud i worry or jus accept that we both wont b working all these hours?

Also shud i worry that i have not met his mum? and how long shud u go out with sumone b4 u meet em?

Thank u

i jus wanted to rant really lol

Reply 1

fleur-de-lis

Depends. How long have you been going out with him?

Reply 2

fleur-de-lis

If you both decrease the no: of hours you are working, maybe you still meet up? Working long hours can be quite stressful...

Reply 3

Ciurlis1

I think its natural that you do not get time to go out when you spend time working together. Me and my boyf. used to see each other 5 days a week 9-5 at college (we shared most of the classes) plus he saw his family on Saturdays so that left little time to ourselves or to do any outiside activities. It frastrated me/ still does-lives to short and all that!

As for meeting his parents - I've been going out with my boyf. for nearly 3 years and I've only met his mum 3 times. I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

Reply 4

bavman

there are no steadfast rules. for anything. i guess so long as you meet someones parents b4 u marry them, else it doesnt really matter.

Reply 5

claireyfairy

it is rare i even see him at work i jus scared of losing him :frown:

and i been with my bf a yr and not met his mum only spoke to her on the fone and that is for like a minute! Thank u

Reply 6

daniel_williams

i know how ure feling... my gf and i haven't seen each other in well over 3 weeks, we live 18 miels apart and that nothing seeing as i can drive, but we have been so busy and recently she has been having problems, and this has meant we are not seeing each other, and tomorrow will be the first time in well 4 weeks and its going to be strange because we haven't been able to talk tor spend much time together, but i think tis true being apart makes the heart grow fonder

Reply 7

Duck and Cover

In terms of meetin parents, that really isn't an issue. Half my bestest friends parents i havent met, let alone gf! It really isnt important lol!

Reply 8

twistedrose

Duck and Cover

In terms of meetin parents, that really isn't an issue. Half my bestest friends parents i havent met, let alone gf! It really isnt important lol!

Yeah.. completely agree. You may alienate him by asking him. Parents are scary things.. and in my experience only judge.

Reply 9

mypaperheart

Although it isn't everything, I think meeting his parents is an important thing to do, especially if he's close to his family. I love my boyfriend's mum to pieces, she's great!! :smile:

It'll make you and your guy much closer if you get to know his family, in my opinion. You'll feel more comfortable doing things with them and being around them in their own home. :smile: