Forgetting

How do i forget about a guy? i went to the cinema with him i have fancied him 4 ages we were kissing and stuff and then afterwards he broke my heart saying he doesnt want a gf for a few years :frown:

Im always thining about yesterday and i see him a lot at school and his views wont change :frown:

he must like me or he wudent have kissed me would he? :frown:

im so upset! how do i forget, i have no chance and just want to forget it ever happend :frown:

Or is there a way to change his mind bearing in mind he doesent like talking about it :frown:

Reply 1

DeLboY

How old are both of you??

Did he say why he doesn't want a girlfriend yet?? It's a bit out of order for him to lead you on and then drop you like that. You deserve an explanation at least

Reply 2

Agrippina

DeLboY

How old are both of you??

Did he say why he doesn't want a girlfriend yet?? It's a bit out of order for him to lead you on and then drop you like that. You deserve an explanation at least

Agreed, though to the original poster, I don't really think you can say your heart was broken by a guy who you went to the cinema with once!

Reply 3

Goldenratio

Dragoness

How do i forget about a guy? i went to the cinema with him i have fancied him 4 ages we were kissing and stuff and then afterwards he broke my heart saying he doesnt want a gf for a few years :frown:

Im always thining about yesterday and i see him a lot at school and his views wont change :frown:

he must like me or he wudent have kissed me would he? :frown:

im so upset! how do i forget, i have no chance and just want to forget it ever happend :frown:

Or is there a way to change his mind bearing in mind he doesent like talking about it :frown:

That maybe where you're wrong though... he might not actually like you in that way. :confused:

Reply 4

ice girl

never say never u might have a chance. just concentrate on getting to know him abit more talk to him as friends, he may then realise wot he's missin!!!

Reply 5

still_ill

aww hun, my sympathies to you. Unfortunately in the dating world you'll always find these "mixed msg guys/girls" and through experience with life I've finally worked out what to do with them ... i.e. don't touch with a barge pole!!

I find in relationships it's best to take things exactly as they appear and not try to second guess what they're thinking and their confusing behaviour -simply because there's no way to read someone's mind. These confusing guys invariably lead to more confusion and the need to post more and more of these 'what did he meant by that?' posts, if you pursue it. Is it really worth the investment? Getting together I don't think should be complicated, not like in the movies! You don't want to be spending months and months chasing someone. Take it from me hun these are your best dating years and your time and emotion are v.v.precious.

Give yourself a few days or at most a week to feel down and come to terms with it then get yourself out there, look nice and find another guy to be interested in. Show him that giving mixed messages will just lead to a loss of interest on your part and him missing out on a good thing. And it will prob give him a lesson he needs as well.