Relationship over

i posted a thread on here about my girlfriend getting annoyed and wanting space. Well in the end i just pushed it too far and we were both unhappy and she ended it sunday night. She said she wasnt as happy as she use to be.

We had stayed together this summer because we wanted to be together when uni starts and it starts in about 4 days. I cant believe shes ended it so close to uni. I asked cant she just give it a go and she said she didnt want to. When we will be at uni it will be so good together. Thats why we had stayed together because we knew it would be worth it all in the end. But she doesnt want to try. I know i make her so happy. I was the 1st person she told she loved.

We were so happy and good together when we are actually together. Before the summer it was perfect and we really wanted to stay together. But this summer she wanted space and i just got worried that she would forget about me and find someone else and in the end i forced her to end it.

Ive told her all my reasons why ive been like i have this summer and she knows that isnt me. I dont think she believed i would be like i was before the summer. She said she really hoped she did.

She knows i love her to bits and the times we have been together this summer ive made her so happy. Its just when i leave i screw it up.i made her unhappy. i know i can make her happy again but i just wish she had given me the chance to.

It is all my fault in the end. i know that and i hate myself for it. i went to see her yesterday but she wouldnt speak to me. She said i was just making it harder than it already is. i just wanted to save "us".

She said ive been her best bf etc and we are going to be at the same uni so good chance we'll see each other. I want to get back with her but i know i just have to show her when i see her im the same person she fell in love with before the summer.

Im going to try and get back together when i see her in uni. I think if she sees me as the person she loved she might get back with me. We had been together for 8 months.I did everything else right, stayed faithful,treated her nice,bought her lots of gifts. I just didnt give her space, thats my only downfall so its not like theres a long list of problems we have.She really did love me to put up with the hassle this summer but its proved to been too much so close to uni.I want to win her heart again. Has any body got any advice about what i shouldnt do and should do? As it stands were single but i want to win her back when i see her in uni. Please help

Reply 1

viviki

I don't think you can win her back. She obviously wants to move on at uni, if you pressure her it'll just put her off more. sorry

Reply 2

JonnyB

viviki

I don't think you can win her back. She obviously wants to move on at uni, if you pressure her it'll just put her off more. sorry

Amen. Bite the bullet, move on.

Reply 3

IjustlovetheIB

Honestly, it sounds like she wants to move on and isn't considering the possibility of going back out with you. But I don't know. You might wanna try to win her back or talk her into getting back together. At least she'll know you miss her and really care about your relationship.

Good luck.

Reply 4

willey

she broke up with u at the perfect time.
Uni will be good for both of you.
it is time to move on, learn from your mistakes and the next girlfriend you have i am willing to bet you will be a lot different with i.e more in control and not so clingy.