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Pointless mylifeiscomplicated

Eurch im so confused. So heres my story (an yeah i no this is gonna be one of those wot-the-hell-u-postin-that-4 threads but whatever). Ok so Ive known this one girl...Girl 1...lol....4 years and years and we've been going out off and on for ages, and i recently broke up with her. Then on saturday I went out with girl 1 and some other girls, and i got very close with one of the girls...girl2...and then we really hit it off. But 2day I broke up with her. I'm still in love with girl1. So im still in love with girl 1 but i dont necessarily want 2 get back with her....does that sound TOO weird??!??!! I jus had 2 break up with girl2 cos i wudnt wanna carry on duin stuff with her while i was still in love with gril1 and didnt wanna go too far with her so that i cudnt *go back*. But thats not everything. In the past I had this thing with a guy...2nd base lol accordin 2 that other thread lol!!...so that jus adds 2 my lifes confusion.

I'm in love with this girl and would like 2 get back with her but am not desperate 2.
Because of this I dont want to go out with any other girls.
I'm also confused sexually wot with this whole guy thing.

Hmmm... :eek:

I no i havent really asked a question...but is it normal to feel like this at my age?? As in, both the 2-girl thing and the sexuality thing?? :frown:
Reply 1
Well judging from your post you sound a little off. Maybe you were not in the oven long enough...

Yes I guess it is normal to feel like that (as in sometimes feeling attracted to same sex) as for the other malarki what is the question/point?... I don't think you understand the concept of love. Mature a little first.
You never stop loving your first love.
Yeah i will, i need 2. Thx
I think you are afraid of commitment. Or else, why would you be in love with girl 1 and not want to go out with her..?!