Why do virgins think they're better than everyone else

i literally agree with everything OP says - one of the most common threads on TSR usually relates to people being 'sluts' or 'man whores' and how it makes them less of a person? there are far worse things to do with your life than sleep around (it's fun sometimes, get over it.)

i haven't slept with a huge amount of people (less than 20) but i don't judge anyone for however many they have, whether its none or 1,000. i do see comments on here quite regularly about people with these high morals that they love force feeding to everyone else thinking they're better because they've only slept with one person or no one at all or whatever. i'm not generalising this to EVERY virgin. just a lot of them. they're probably just bitter.

Thankyou, you have noticed it too. There is nothing wrong with sleeping around and having fun when you're young. You'd think most of people here are puritans, up for banning christmas, dancing, music, anything that can be construed as "fun" as they might offend the Lord.

Seeking pleasure and living a hedonistic lifestyle is not morally wrong, but natural.

If you're going to bring your prejudiced bigoted bullshiit to this thread I suggest you get out.

My God, this thread is irritating the f**k out of me. Get over the fact that some people choose to wait to have sex. I find it incredibly sad that you are spending a considerable amount of time, arguing a point that clearly almost no one agrees with you on.

Uhhh, that's not what I said. I didn't say someone could know everything to do with handling a relationship, I simply put forward the possibility that someone could be mature enough to handle a relationship without ever previously having had one, especially someone who is out of their teens, living independently, working and managing their own life succesfully. What most rational people would consider to be a 'grown up'.

To be honest I really am starting to question your ability to read.



I quite clearly asked you what skill or skills you are referring to specifically. Once again you don't seem to have read my post properly?

You have to come out of the relationship having gained some quality or learnt something to better yourself. That's what maturing is essentially, no? Otherwise you haven't changed at all, and therefore you have not matured.

So what are these 'skills' specifically? And if you do finally manage to name them, please explain why they cannot possibly be learnt by any other means.

How to use sex as a weapon, what mind games people in relationships play and how to play them, how to tell whether a relationship is working/ really worth it or not, whether a girl is serious about you or taking you for a ride, how to avoid being manipulated or emotionally black-mailed etc. Basically how to handle relationships.

What exactly are they achieving? I fail to understand how they are achieving anything from not experiencing an important experience of life, and pleasurable one at that. They are merely avoiding pleasure for the sake of nothing, it just sounds quite idiotic.

What again is the point of "waiting"?

What are those who have sex achieving in the long run?

OP, you're a dick. Noone likes you so get your virgin arse off TSR and go live in a hole.

Why do they need to be achieving anything? Simply not having sex isn't achieving much either.

You say that virgins aren't achieving anything by being virgins which implies you feel that non-virgins are achieving something. What is this achievement of which you speak? An STD perhaps? Loss of respect in some cases?

The point is the virgins I'm talking are acting as if they are actually achieving something, whereas you could actually argue more that people who go out and get laid are achieving that, doing nothing isn't achieving anything.